SB............I'm no expert on eating pussy,but
when I go down on my Lady.........I use my fingers as well as my tongue...........and when I go near her clit.........she begs me to stay there................and if I think about moving away form it,she slaps the piss outta me.
I'm not sure it this will help,but I hope it does
*L* Don't slap your B/F(unless your into that)

but,personally ,I think the clit thing and the fingers works.
good luck.............I hope things work out for you
sorry, I missed your last post....................forget I said anything..*L*