Tongue Lashing...
 

At the beginning of our relationship my bf was eager to eat me out even though he had no experience in that department (or any other sexual department now that I think about it). We agreed not to keep track of who went down on who and no one would owe the other. (Although as of now I have been much more generous!!)

Well he doesn't go down on me anymore!! And I can't get him to, no matter how nice I ask!!!

What should I do to raise his enthusiasm again??

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Sarah

Ya got me...after 25 years hubby has only tried once, and it wasn't a very enthusiastic effort either.


Good luck honey, it sucks when you DO know what you're missing.

I hope someone here will offer some words of wisdom that will help you encourage your bf to once again, go down south. :)

It may just be that he doesn't feel you're responding enough at the time, even though you tell him you want him to other times. I know it's no fun for me doing something if I don't get some positive feedback.

Dump him! He does not care about what you want.........that does not get better over time.

*Sob*

I feel so abused and unloved...he never was good, though I honestly tried my best to help him. But I didn't really know what felt good cause no one else that had gone down on me before did a very thorough job.

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Sarah

I sure can't help since though I love to do it, she won't let me or do me. Maybe she doesn't like how I do her, but others either said nothing to not hurt my fellings or gave me hints on improving.

I am about to get out and find a woman who does like it.

NOOOOOOOO...I'm not dumping him and really that isn't true. I know he does...I just don't why he doesn't like to eat me out.

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Sarah

I'm sure I'd like it jonjon!!!!!!!

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Sarah

Sarah,
ASK HIM!!! Seriously, if he's not doing something anymore there's probably a reason, and none of us are going to know that, only him! So when you next feel ok bringing it up, just ask, "You used to luv going down on me, but now it's like you don't. What's wrong? Maybe we can fix it?"
That just sounds the most logical thing to do in my opinion. There could be any number of reasons - maybe it's just lost the novelty appeal and now it's boring or something. Like I said, I dunno, and nobody else but him probably knows.

Good luck, and let us know what he says!
CasperTG

I did ask him LOL and this is exactly what he said:

"its just that i dont know if i am doing it right or not and i dont wanna do it cause i'm worried that i wont do it right."

So now I need help w/ that!! I don't know how to go down on a girl!!! and just between us Pixie ppls...(shh) I don't even masturbate (it's kind of a shame-shame catholic girl thing) So he doesn't know how to please me...I don't know how to please me! Someone help me!!

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Sarah

jonjon said:

"I am about to get out and find a woman who does like it."
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*raising my hand as high as I possibly can, waving it around like a madwoman, adding a yell "HEY! OVER HERE" every once in a while* LOL LOL


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OK Smile Beautiful...it sounds like you need some simple old fashioned sex education. Search the internet and find some cross cut pictures of a womans body and a mans.
Find all the necessary bits and pieces...and don't get into listening to old wives tales about sex and stuff.

Find out what makes your toes curl....take a finger and FIND your clit. Rub it. Does that feel good? Does it feel odd? Sometimes at first it does feel strange and maybe even uncomfortable.

Often, until a woman knows how an orgasm is supposed to feel..for REAL, she doesn't realize she's having one or it feels almost painful to her.

Play with your body. Learn from all those feelings...good and bad. And encourage your boyfriend to do the same.

After you've both played by yourselves, figure out a way to incorporate the play WITH each other...........

*whew*

Sounds confusing.. sorry.......
just don't give up on yourself. It's important to know how YOU feel...how YOUR body responds to different kinds of stimulation and where.........

Good luck and have FUN!

TY.......WILL DO!!!!!!

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Sarah

That's what I suggested, that he can't tell if he's pleasing you or not. Why do I bother trying to help people?

Oops I'm sorry Ironwood...You're a male so that makes you automatically CORRECT and ALL KNOWING!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sarah

I think maybe watching videos might help, watch together or seperate

Just My 2 cents worth