I just like people to admit the possibility.

But Ironwood, so often it isn't just one problem but several.

You were right on the money with one of their problems of course but she also said that she really didn't know her body very well....


so there already you have two things going on.


I'm amazed at the all the great and different suggestions given here...this is so cool.

You get on I-71 at that end and get off at this end!

LOL- That's one of the beautiful things about Pixies. You get to dream HAPPY with real people.

Hun- You AND he don't have to read around here very much to see that there are a lot of us that LIVE to suck our ladies out. I know you can find everything from method to hygiene in these threads. The most important thing in any intimate experience is to just let it go and enjoy. Enjoy yourself, your partner, your partners enjoyment of you. Sex, in all its forms, is the only true perpetual motion that just keeps getting by giving and giving by getting. And it sounds like the both of you have the beautiful opportunity to start at the beginning and explore it all together. Just give yourselves to each other completely and take each other completely.

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Sarah:

To quote Nike, "Just do it!" or tell him to do it. You say he doesn't do it to you because he "doesn't know how so he's afraid to." None of us knew how until we LEARNED how to...Of course, I couldn't imagine not wanting to go down on a woman as beautiful as you are. I also agree with a couple of previous comments. MASTURBATE: there is a very good chance that few guys will ever be able to please you if you can't please yourself...If you don't know what makes you feel best during sex. I am not suggesting that you dump you bf, unless you do so for me of course (J/K)...but, the simple fact that you posted this threads leads me to believe that you are somewhat frustrated with this. No matter how great he may be to you in all other areas, this dilemma will lead to irreconcilable difficulties in your relatinship (and possibly future relationships) if it is not resolved. There is absolutely nothing fun or enjoyable about sex if one or both of you are left unsatisfied and sexually frustrated. I bet that you make him cum...does HE take the time to make sure that you do? Ask yourself and him that!!!

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I wish all the ladies were potholes in the road...and I was a dumptruck because I'd fill them with my load.

Smile Beautiful,

I agree with the talking but the answer he gave makes it tough. If he is open there are some great sites with how to do it. Oral sex that is, written from a woman's point of view.

Also maybe a bit more blow jobs by you and turning into him towards a 69.

Hey and remember you can always guide him along. Give him step by step hints as you entice him with provactive teasing. Try cherry syrup and honey and make it playful to get him back into it,

My best regards and wishes that you work this out. I wouldn't want you to get into a situation like I am in.

xoxox

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http://www.cumown.com/love/sex/howtoeat.htm

This is a url to read about eating pussy. Send your bf there and maybe he will get on track.

I agree with the need to masturbate and recommend you read http://www.proaxis.com/~solo/hme.htm or less specifically go to http://www.intercourse.org.uk/links.html

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Dear Smile Beautiful,

I don't know if you have ever tried pleasuring a lady with your tongue but believe me, there can be a feedback problem. It can be very, very hard to judge what is happening as you lick and suck your favourite pussy.

Apart from the embarrassment many ladies feel about directing their man to lick here harder, go easier there, ooh-that's good, there is also the problem of being driven out of their mind. In my limited experience, your lady is likely to collapse into total incoherence and be literally unable to communicate. Many's the time I've been working away without even a moan as a reward only to find afterwards that she's been out of her mind in ecstacy.

If your man had any idea how much you were enjoying it, I'm sure he would never stop. Talking about it afterwards is difficult and not precise. So how to get the message through as the great event is happening?

One suggestion is to get on top. Rest your elbows on the bedhead and lower your pussy onto his tongue. Tell him to keep his head still, and you do the moving. You'll soon both figure out what works best and your increasingly frantic movements will give him a real buzz. He'll also be 100% sure of when you came!

Another gentler way is to 69 - but not simultaneously. I'm told it is near impossible for a girl to have a good orgasm while trying to do the same for some-one else, so take turns. Bring him close to cumming, and then stop while he does the same for you. You'll have to stop him before you slip over the edge, but just having got you close will be a prize for him (you can always play-act a bit to encourage him). After a few turns, let yourself come. Don't bother trying to make him come at the same time, he'll still enjoy the experience. Just bury your face in his crotch and enjoy yourself. When you come round again, you may find he's come in your hair. If not, sit on his cock or blow him until he gets his jollies too.

You'll never hear him say he didn't know if he was doing it right again!

Lose him in a big hurry. Like a bad habit.
He has to be either selfish or stupid and it is just a matter of time before these traits of his become apparent in other areas of the relationship.
You are too hot to waste your time on this loser.

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Well, Simle Beautiful, are you winning? Or do I have to come over there and sort you out myself? Let us know what happening.....

ok.... my two cents worth

It isn't going to get any better..........DUMP HIM!!!!!
He obviously has a hang up or is just plain selfish!

Been there..done that...bought him the ticket and sent him on his way!

good advice BIBI, sometimes you just have to move on to better your own life or self

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SB I don't get to because my wife says I give her to intense of orgasms. If you tell him how you would like him to do you, he won't know any better. I also like some of ericthered's thoughts. Randy Gal I still am offering my services.

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I would like to ask sort of the opposite question.

From the man's point of view. Are there women or at lest a a fairly good number of women that absolutely don´t like to have cunnilingus performed on them?

Why? Is it so as not to feel obliged to reciprocate?

What would be the answer? I have not met many that don't like it, though some ask on occasion to not do it but it was not a hard rule, except with my wife and it drive me nuts.

Anyone have an idea?

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jonjon are you nuts??? have you seen what this woman looks like??
Her b/F can't be that big of a catch. When you got bait like SB you don't need to spend a lot of time in the boat baby...cast the line and reel'em in. Throw back the ones that are too small or don't taste good.

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I've seen your pics S.B. if he has a problem with it then it's on him.
If you give more than you receive cut em off lol see how he likes it,it's evil and bitchy but thats not always a bad thing.Honestly though if you truly love him i wouldn't dump him quite yet my suggestion is get a lesbian porn watch it together and say hey see what she's doin.....well do me like that baby.I'm bi and i've had some of the best pussy lickin from another chic....and thats because as women we know where we like to be licked,we know the spots just my suggestion

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