Let me see if I can explain this situation correctly...My g/f isn't too interested in sex right now. Its a once and a while thing but things have to be just right for her to be interested. I don't have a problem with that because of the circumstances. She was molested by her stepdad and she has some confidence issues also. In the beginning she wanted sex a lot and since we've been together she got a birth control shot (depoparva) or something like that. We did some research on that brand and it has some pretty bad side effects apparently with lack of sex drive being one of them. So anyway, she doesn't have a sex drive anymore but before she lost it we talked about going to a sex toy store but now I don't want to bring it up (I know communication communication communication) but what my questions is do you all think (as women) that she is going to make my life a living hell if I ordered her a fairly plain viberator? I'm thinking that maybe that might help her (and don't think I'm just trying to get her to like sex again so I can have sex) Just curious what some of ya'lls thoughts are. Thanks