I've been talking with my boyfriend who really wan'ts to stay harder longer, but I'm not educated on how well what really works.

Can you give me some feedback on the following things, how they work and how well they work?

1) cockrings

2) prolonging spray or cream

Much appreciated! =)

I'd suggest having him masturbate about 15 minutes before hand, and seeing if he stays harder the second time around. Besides, helping can be fun.

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PC muscle exercises (aka "Kegels.") There's stuff on the web about this as well as a great book by Margo Annand called THE ART OF SEXUAL ECSTACY.

have you considered viagra? i don't have any experience with it myself but i did hear this guy on the radio say he took some and after a few hours was almost "begging for [his] cock to not be hard anymore" (his words, not mine ). maybe it's worth a shot.

try Gilly's suggestion first though. i can tell you (from experience this time) that that does work. (he love you long time )

Not worrying about it will help. Nothing like stress and anxiety to trigger all kinds of aggravating things.

Take the pressure off and just enjoy sex. Orgasms happen because sex feels so damn good! If they occur before you want them to, enjoy it...rest and catch your breath...and get ready for the next round!

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I bought him some "Mandelay" once and it numbed him so he couldn't cum....said he felt like he was gonna bust something, but boy, I sure came a lot......

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Use less next time.

Note that it's generally good to use a condom when using such creams--otherwise they'll numb the woman also.

Is he unable to stay hard, or is he cumming too soon? Different problems I think.

If it's staying hard that's the problem, I dunno what to tell ya. A cock ring will work, but you can only use it for safety reasons for no more than 20 minutes...that's no fun.

If he's cumming too soon, try the one thing that lets my wife enjoy our marathon sex sessions - change positions, and change positions often.

We go from kissing to oral to masturbating to doggy to her on top to me on top to slamming her against the wall to her on top facing away from me....you get the picture. Anyhow, if we don't do that, I pop like a cork right away. That's why our bathroom quickies work so well!

Anyhow, give that a shot. Not only will he last longer, but it will prove MUCH more fun in the bedroom!

Enjoy!

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I use cockrings on occasion...mostly to prevent cumming too quickly the first time...but the function of the cockring will also keep you harder.

I'd try the ring first, then go to Viagara if needed.

Good Luck!

rabbit

man, it just got hot in here!

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there are several products out there that make me harder and longer .
I have tryed cock rings and they are ok for the first time. Viagra when it works for me is also Ok for one go round. I have settled on a product that is injected and it enables me to cum at least twice over about an hr. ya really need to check with a Dr if your going to use any of the meds

There are men who can have sex more than once in a night....and it doesn't fall off?

Hmmmmmmmmm............I think I need to tell *someone* about this phenomenon.

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maybe even 4 or 5 times a night ?

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