
12-08-2002, 09:33 AM
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I are a lady too, and I agree with Casper and Sharniqua.
Also, as I've alluded to elsewhere on this site, I've had anal intercourse with a man a few hours ago for the first time in almost 12 years. He's my partner of 11 years. It was also the first time when it was not, at least for the first several minutes, quite painful. In fact, he got into me quite easily. That is not to say, however, that he didn't say that I was *very* tight to him, and it also felt positively *fantastic* to me. In fact, anal sex tonight is up there as a candidate for my best sexual experience ever. (And I've had some *good* ones!) All of the neighbors know I had a great time too.
To explain this, a butt plug can be used as an anal dilator, to gradually and gently help stretch the opening, and get the muscles used to having something put in there, and gently removed. It can go in gradually - starting at the very small end and getting to be about 2 inches (depending on the size of your plug). When I started "playing" with a butt plug about a year ago, I could barely get something in the size of a finger. Now... he didn't even have to enter me very slowly, and he's about 5" around at the widest point. Oh, sure, he was very gentle with me and was at least initially afraid of hurting me. He'd never participated in anal intercourse before either. I suspect we'll have it again in much less than 11 more years!
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