Everyone has a wish list. It may not be one that is on paper to read everyday, but somewhere in the recesses of our minds there is a list. There has to be. We all want to meet someone who is compatible with our ethics, morals and beliefs. We all want someone who is a positive addition to our life, not a hinderence.Someone who makes us happy and visa versa. There is always a wish list

As far as being the best person you can be. I think most people try to be the best they can be, but that doesn't guarantee anything. I wish it were as simple as that....

How many of us have met people that we think are wonderful only to find out that they aren't? Everyone I bet, and the reason we tend to dismiss them from our inner circle is because they do not live up to what we, for lack of a better word, have on our "list".

You know, I tend to be pretty damn picky when it comes to men. I have a tendency to be friends with men I would date....maybe not marry, but date....and if they don't meet that criteria then they are not in my inner circle of friends. Sounds kinda mean, but I find that the first criteria for dating is that the person be my friend, so the converse is also true.

Lou ~ my guess is that you maybe hadn't made the right list. There are some shallow things that are just "window dressing" (like having a driver's license), but the really important things DO matter. My guess is that Fussy met all the "non-negotiables."

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Some people also believe that you can't attract what you want unless you know what that is. And that sometimes you miss out on someone having many of those attributes because you were not aware that they were high on the priority list. It can also help people who consistently make bad choices in partners ( my mom) to look at what they want in a partner vs. what they have chosen in the past. Then they can reflect on why they make those choices. Repeatedly, consistently, over and over and over

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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LILITH..........you just told my life story.
Maybe I'll get it right this time.

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

You're Lilith's mom?

I kid! It seems like you've got a great guy now, my dear.

Jenna,

Don't forget "employed"

She has Working on the list BiBi.

Jenna, are you using this list for your project? To my mind some of the things cancel each other out.

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Half of a set :halo:

[QUOTE=Catch22]She has Working on the list BiBi[QUOTE]

Well spank me silly!!!

I made a boo boo!

.....and so did you! lol

[QUOTE=BIBI][QUOTE=Catch22]She has Working on the list BiBi

Does that mean we get a picnic basket for being booboo?

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