OK...so what are the characteristics of your ideal mate?

Bonus points...How does your current mate match up? What is the one thing you would add to your current mate's characteristics? What is the one thing this person has that you like -- and never knew you wanted until now?

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I'll start:

Attractive, successful, intelligent, good with money, good sense of humor, loving, independent, and makes sure I come first in his life.

Bonus:
1. Matches up very well.
2. Add - more sex drive!
3. Challenges my thinking and preconceptions on a daily basis.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Honest, caring, funny, smart, strives to meet goals, hard worker, takes time to cuddle, loves my daughter, one woman man.

My man meets all of these, some to more extent than others. Thats why I married him.

Someone who cleans up! OK, I'm trying to get in housework mode right now so I'm biased . . .

Sometimes what I want changes . . . but for now, I'm settling on the mate I have now - he is ambitious, funny, sweet, caring but still manages to get on my nerves sometimes

I never get on his nerves, of course!

my ideal???~~~~easy!!!!!!!!

fluffy, cute ,rodent ,biker, fantastic lover, special friend, tollerent and just next door with his wee one!

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

My ideal mate, hmmmmm she'd be a natural beauty. You know doesn't need makeup but shakes the world around her when she does. Caring and openly affectionate. I like women who laugh, and don't feel it's rude to let it all out. She'd be generous, understanding, patient and could charm Scrooge into a $100 charity donation. She wouldn't shun my hugs and smooches when we're out and about. Let the world see our love bloom. Definitely a hand holder and arm in arm walker. Independant but unashamed to lean on me if she wanted. Smart, and always open to share her opinions. A lady who could discuss most anything and never let it get to be an argument.
I guess that's pretty much it. It's a tall order, maybe too tall but you asked for ideal didn't you? Oh and at present I really don't have anyone, but I will.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

All I want is a Lady who Loves SEX as Much as I do. No Lies, No hidden Agenda and Most of All.......................AS DEVIATE as Me.

Being this side of Deranged will help too.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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