So your S/O is giving you a good sucking or licking depending on your sex...or maybe you just bent her over or got bent over and you close your eyes.....and behind your eyes it isnt your SO doing the deed....

Bad, Healthy Fantasy, evil???....What do you think???

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

It depends . . . do you ALWAYS fantasize about someone else? Is it always the same person? Does that mean you might have feelings for another person? In that case, it's probably bad. I don't fantasize about other people when I'm with my guy. It doesn't work that way for me. When I'm watching 'ER', I'll sometimes wish Luka was my partner but Luka doesn't enter my mind when I'm making love to T.

So long as you're not thinking about me STO.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

Ya never know....

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

I concentrate on what I'm doing :fly: not to whom I'm doing it to.

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Happened once a while back.......... really intense! It jinxed me and I could not get off. So now I purposely try to stay in the moment. I use fantasy lovers to fuel my solo endeavors

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Whether it's healthy or not depends on who you're fantasizing about...are we seeing Cindy Crawford or Winston Churchill?

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

i think if its a regular occurence, then it might be a problem. but if its only happened a few times, its totally healthy. theres nothing wrong with imagination.

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don't tax my gig so hardcore, cruster.

human thought is so primitive, it's looked upon as an infectious disease in some of the better galaxies. that kind of makes you proud, doesn't it?

I always focus on my wife. Although I do admit sometimes all will change her into more of a “bad girl”. I just LOVE the thought of my sweet little prim and proper wife being a wanton cum slut. It drives me wild to see her acting soooo naughty.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony

Bump

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

please use a "slow down" sign when there is a *bump* ahead

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I'm similar to Hitachi. Sometimes I need an extra boost in the imagination dept to get over the top. When I do, I will place my lover in a fantasy that I know my lover would not approve of. What gives me the boost is not that I know he wouldn't approve of it; that just happens to be the way it is. I know I couldn't share it with him, so I just imagine it while we're making love instead. However, I don't fantasize that I am with someone else in particular.

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Communication is the key.

I never fantasise during intercourse but I have been known to drift into fantsy during oral sex.

I NEVER fantasise about being with someone else, but I do alow my mind to be crowded with whatever sexual thoughts happen to pop into my head....whether it's a porn scene I've seen recently or a story I've read. I do find sometimes that's necessary to push me over the edge.....

I think it only happens during oral or masturbation because on these occasions there is no dirty talk for me to enjoy and keep my mind on track. And if my mind isn't into it, my body most certainly won't be!

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

I have never fantasized about another during any sexual encounters, solo or partnered. It has never entered my mind. I do sometime fantasize about people I see, but it never gets very explicit. If it gets me going and I do something about it my mind swithches back to my S/O. I guess in my book it is okay to fuel the fire with fantasy, but to quench the flame it has to be my S/O.

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Never say never, but if you do it's okay to change your mind~me, I think

OK........I'm guilty of fantasizing about another occasionally!

I haven't blurted out another's name in this situation but, Yes, I've let my mind stray from my husband.

Recently.........I was chatting with someone and he was telling me what he would do to me the very first moment we met in person. That very evening, hubby and I got down and dirty and I sorta led the session towards the scenario put in my "mind's eye" by the conversation I had earlier. Hubby never knew and so therefore I don't think any harm was done...............and............it was oh so exciting for the both of us!

No harm......no foul!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~