Maybe it's just that I, like a lot of us here, are quite open minded about sex, but I can't in all the world imagine why anybody would think that a guy enjoying someone using a strap-on on him would make him sick OR gay. I mean, what the heck is wrong with someone receiving pleasure in one of their erogenous zones? And whether you're male or female, it IS one of the body's erogenous zones. Please, Champ, get those notions out of your head of you being thought of as sick or gay if you think you'd like it. Also, when it comes to the notion that a guy must be or would be considered gay if he wants it or likes it, what about having your dick sucked? After all, gay guys do that, too. It certainly doesn't mean a guy is gay just because he likes THAT activity. I'd gladly use a strap-on on my guy if he wanted me to; he already loves to be rimmed. I think he'd like more, too, if I could talk him into trying it.

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