Cause your young and cute perhaps?

You wait till ya over 40. You can fall down in the street and nobody will notice!

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Good point.

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Well too late to give you advice, but I can offer you congratulations from getting away from that relationship. I hope that girl can see sense too because some people are just users and they jump from one victim to the next...

Keep as far away from him as possible. It sounds like he only wants to control you now and you don't need that in your life. Go out and have lots of fun. You don't answer to anyone, and even if you were with someone you still shouldn't have to.

And if you want to stay single, I think you should. Where's the rush? Take things as they come, do what you feel comfortable doing.

Above all, take care. Enjoy your freedom.

i still get hassle from his family. his sister and her hubby enjoy giving me hassle far too much, it can't be healthy.

like the other day, i was chatting to friends online when his sister came on and added me to her msn. she proceeded to threaten me, "im going to kick ur arse young lady, don't get smart with me" do forgive me for standing up for myself. I'm the bad one, naturally. I told her where i lived and said i'd be waiting. I'm still waiting.

My sex ban is now over (theres another post about it somewhere), everyone knows it too, which is funny cause all of the people he called his freinds are begging me to sleep with them. I politly decline, I don't want anyone thinking i'm trying to get back at him.

as for his new girlfriend, she deserves all she gets. she's just as bad as he is, spreading vicious rumours about me right left and center. I've learned to just laugh them off, but when i catch someone spreading them, im not too amused. come on, I'm a Uk size 8, how the hell can I be 5 months pregnant?!

by the way VT, I checked out ur pics... very nice.. tink i may even put some online myself. the only pix i have at the mo is one of my tongue (lol, i'd not long had it pierced when it was taken) and one of me and the ex.. i think I may take some more.

Well Little Miss, maybe the whole family should make up their mind - do you have an incurable disease that means you can't have children or are you pregnant? lol...

It's not right that you're being pestered by his family. Just be careful... You don't belong to him (you never did) and you shouldn't have to put up with that. If they start getting nasty, physically bothering you in any way you should threaten them with police action (and perhaps take out a restraining order if it goes too far). It's only my opinion, but these people sound like they could turn very nasty... I hope that it will never come that far though. Just take care of yourself. Your safety is worth everything.

Now that you've explained about the girlfriend... well, I pity her. If she can't see what a vindictive person he is, and how badly he treated a nice girl like you... It's a shame, but they belong together in that case.

Off topic, thanks for the comment about my pics... I'd say more mediocre than nice to be honest, lol. But I'm sure that you are simply stunning. I can only dream of being a size 8... I don't have the frame for it. lol, at least I have my dreams... And the men here always have something good to say about the ladies, so I'm sure you will be most welcomed to post pictures.

Good luck with everything and I hope they will leave you alone so you can get on with your life without a family like that bothering you constantly.

Keep safe and I apologize for writing so much... it's my curse, lol.

I just read this thread right through and you are best to put him and his family right behind you Hun.

As to not wanting a relationship right now, well that is entirely understandable. The man used you and cheated and lied to you.

That hurts and it is a natural reaction to wonder if it is worth it.

You are quite a young woman, go out with guys you feel attracted to and compare their qualities, you have learnt through experience that the things to look for as well as attraction are honesty, openess, caring and faithfullness. These are the qualities of keepers and ones that will ultimately give you security and happiness.

hope this year brings you much happiness

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Grumble

thanks for your comments VT, grumbly

VT, I've given up trying to decided if im pregnant or what is going on, im sure they'll tell me if i give birth at any time lol. I was out last night, standing at the bar some guy came up and touched my belly, naturally i turned and was ready to slap him. He looked shocked and sais "im sorry, i heard u were pregnant, i can see ur not, sorry to bother u!"

shocking! lol. I just laugh about it all, if they as if anything is true i just blank them. I'm tired of saying "dont be silly".

as for his wonderful sister, im having a good laugh at her too. i said i wouldnt hold my breath, just as well i didnt. she thought she could scare me. nothing about a woman who lets a man beat their child and goes back to him scares me besideds her obvious mental problems.

his girlfriend is indeed a strange little girl too, she fits right in with the family.

some inside info as to how strange they are: the father raped both of his daughters, the mother knew and she let him get on with it. he would beat his wife, until he was charged with raping his daughters. my ex lost part of his left leg in an accident when he was 5, his mother woud make him strip in public to show it off.

im sorry, but that is freaky.

about ur pics, they are a little dark, but u know what ur looking at and they are very nice, no arguments lady! lol. My mom had a tindy waist and big boobs when she was my age, i got her genes *prays* thank you god! lol

off topic a little here: being off the sex ban, great... i went home with a real sweetheart last night. i was soooooooooo hot when we got there, couldn't keep our hands off each other. as soon as he went to take my knickers off i freaked out, i couldnt do it. ive never been so scared in my whole life. he was really sweet about it, said it didnt matter and that he knew it would take time to get used to it, so i'm seeing him again tonight.

what the hell is that about?!

Yes, they all sound like a bunch of nutters. Sick, perverted nutters. Explains why he's crazy though with parents like that... No excuse however, I believe that if people don't want to turn into their parents then they'll do something to stop it. Your ex seems like he's turning into his father and you are so much better away from that. Power to you! Makes me shudder at what you said his dad did - that's so sickening, and just as bad the mother let it go on.

The guy that touched your belly... I'm sorry, but even if you were pregnant that's so rude! I'd have slapped him anyway... lol. I don't know where abouts you live in the UK but those people need to learn some manners...

I guess, and I'm no expert, but with the guy that you couldn't go further with I think your brain may be trying to protect your physical/emotional/mental wellbeing by not letting someone else near. Your boyfriend hurt you a lot (bastard!) and you may have a hard time getting over that. You might think you're okay, but deep down you're still hurting. That's the only explanation I can think of...

But when it happens, it'll happen and all for the right reasons. And if this guy is such a sweetheart then he'll hold on until you're good and ready.

Take care.

Little miss, what this guy did you to you was completely uncalled for!

I'm glad you've got partway to getting it all sorted, just take it slow, step by step and it'll all come right.

from a sympathetic Animal..

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Just a thought.

Did you keep the phone message admitting to interfering with a minor?

Can the phone company recall it as it is an admission of a criminal act?

A knock on his door by the police based on his word is priceless.

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"revenge is sweet, but is it worth it"

just read this thread would just like to say when my husband (now ex) left me for someone else i thought i would never get over it, and i so wanted revenge!!

i got my 'revenge' by going it alone with my two children and realising that i was a really good mum ( he said i was too stupid to ever survive on my own, and that i woud never have a decent job) that was three years ago, and yes i am still on my own, but i have a good job, my kids are well adjusted and i am so HAPPY, the ex is now miserable as sin with no money and no job propects, and his woman now nags the hell outa him!!

Look out for yourself and be happy in life!! this is the only way to get 'revenge'

well done hun!

its true what you said.

my ex won't go out anymore cause 1. the child is too young to drink, and
2. he knows i'll be out having a TANFASTIC time.

he wouldn't let me work when i was with him, he didnt want me going out, and the very idea of another bloke being interested in me was a joke to him.

so now im working, its a crap job but it'll do til i got to college. i go out every weekend, all weekend, and get chatted up by lots of men.

ur right, this is the best way. at least ive got nothing holding me down anymore