Hi, I'm new to your forums. This is my first post and I hope I am posting this in the right place

I am a guy and am engaged to someone I love extremely. I haev always wondered about one thing: my height. My fiance and I are both 5'8". I love her height. However, I think my height bothers her. I wish I was taller, but what will only wishing bring?

My fiance tells me that she is not bothered by my height at all, and never could be. I think she is just being nice to me and trying to not hurt my feelings. Whenever I bring this up to her, she always says, "If you think that you are short, then I may think that I am tall." She says she can say the same thing that she wishes that she was shorter. She basically says the whole deal is pointless to talk about because it does not bother her.

I know this should be enough for me. However, I was wondering that do you think such an issue plays in sexual relationships? Maybe not now, but how about later in life?

Perhaps a better question to ask might be for you girls that are reading this. Do you girls prefer tall guys in sexual activities? What about a guy like my height? Where do you think I stand? What matters to you? If you loved a guy who was your height, do you think you would eventually get tired of him because he is not 'tall'?

Thanks.