I've often said "I'll give you oral anytime, anywhere...at the drop of a hat." Mrs. WI knows I enjoy performing cunnilingus but I still don't think she's grasped the depths of my love of it.

As for her giving oral to me, well, she'll do it now and again. I know it's not her favorite thing to do, for whatever reason, and though I'd like it more often...it's not an issue. I appreciate it when she's in the mood for it.

That having been said, I don't know if it's a gender thing. I think it's a personal preference.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.