Got your attention didn't it!! *LOL*

But the thread is about oral sex. I'm currently reading a novel by James Herbert called "Once..." (good read if anyone cares) and in this tale his hero has encounters with good and evil.

These couplings got me thinking about something. Now, I'm only half way through the book but the 'evil' character goes down on the guy but the 'good' character doesn't. I couldn't help but wonder whether Herbert deems oral sex to be "dirty" hence only the evil character performs BJs.

Interesting. What do people think?

PS - Is anyone else out there obsessed with Shakira's butt? (particularly when she shakes it!!)

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1. Herbert is an exceeding strange author.

2. No.

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i've never heard of James Herbert and oral sex is something i have yet to enjoy....so it looks like i'm evil too

yes, I am obsessed with Shakiras butt (especially when she shakes it)...and all of her really....and she's in Australia at the moment too.

edited to include some reference to oral sex

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OK, maybe I should have made myself more clear. Do people find oral dirty? Empowering? Do it because they like it? Do it because their partner likes it?

Do you think the author is trying to make a point? Is oral still taboo?

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Yes oral is taboo in some circles or to some people.....but things don't change overnight.....but i think things are changing....slowly

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OK I use to think it was something only "bad girls" did when I was young (extremely prudish upbringing). I have no clue exactly why I was left with this impression..... Thank God I learned dif real quick. I have been surpised to find tht more young people seem to be participating in oral sex and abstaining from intercourse. I have heard them say that it keeps them virgins.... then wouldn't that make oral sex a trait of a "good" character? I think some negative ideas about oral must come from the old adage that if it feels that good it must be wrong.
and Shakira's ass does nothing for me

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WoooHooo my fave subject!!!!

Oral Sex is Sex....its not the same without it.

You can call it dirty,taboo, bad i dont care.....ITS FANTASTIC!!!


I do it because i like it. I wouldnt do it though if ICT didnt like it. I'm just glad she does.Very glad in fact.

And as to Shakira's bottom i think its very nice, i wouldn't mind getting hold of it.!!

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yes you did get our attention......
I love oral sex because there is just something about giving your partner that pleasure concentrating on them alone..and deriving pleasure from the fact that you are giving it. mmm makes me want to drop to my knees right now

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vampeyes would you mind if i stood in front of you??

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WOO HOO please do..... I could lick you all day

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mmmm now thats a nice pic i have in my head!! I would of course have to return the favour!!

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I love giving and receiving oral sex!
When giving, I love the pleasure I feel knowing I am giving my partner pleasure, and frankly, especially with men, I love the feeling of power... of control...
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First,there is the "the penis or vagina is dirty" belief.
Then there is the belief of oral sex as being bad or evil or sinful that comes from the bible.
The "religions of the book", Christianity, Judaism, and Islam all have this.
There is a Christian fundamentalist belief that any "homosexual" act, (such as oral sex) even between a woman and her husband(!) is sinful. The story of sodom and gomorrah, and the story of Onan and"spilling seed" has been used to say that we are not supposed to have any sex that is not for reproduction!
I am the victim of a Catholic Girls" School, and have read the bible and found only one mention of female masturbation "the Harlot of Jerusalem" in ezekial 16:17, which sounds a lot like use of a dildo by a woman on herself, and the ONLY mention of oral sex I have ever found is in the "song of songs" or "Song of Solomon"
We have a very messed up culture, sexually.
Here in the USA we fired our Surgeon General because she suggested teaching teens that masturbation might be better than sleeping around and getting pregant or catching a disease.
I looked up all this information once when I made a presentation to my supervisor about teaching safer sex to teens.
They said no!
All we can teach is that they should abstain from any sex at all!

This I why I sometimes think of quiting nursing, and often go home and cry myself to sleep.

Goodness. This is a tall soabox!

Orally,

WW

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I love Oral sex as does my partner MissX, I love spending time pleasuring her, I get one hell of a kick out of knowing that it pleases her ( oh and she tastes so darned good too) .

I particularly like a long slow 69 where we both get to enjoy oral sex though it can get a little distracting when you both doing it. But then i do like to see if i can put her off her stroke as it were

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Then there's the whole issue of legality. Is fellatio still illegal in some states? I know us Canucks don't give a fuck - as former Prime Minister Trudeau said, "The state has no place in the nation's bedrooms."

The powers that be saw it as evil, obviously.

I, personally, would DIE without giving and receiving!

Thank goodness it's not illegal over here

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