actually the moestation isn't as much the problem. Its the birth control shot that has her sex drive out of wack. We had a great sex life until that stupid shot. My question was more in the line of..."if a womans sex drive is out of wack, then is she gonna throw me out of the house if I buy her a sex toy?". We joked around about them a little yesterday so I think it will be ok even if she doesn't want it.