Hello all...

Just curious to see if anyone has ever incorporated scratching into their sex life...by that I mean using long fingernails to make long lasting marks, redness, or even draw blood.

My guy and I have been doing this for a couple of years now, and have found it to be a fun experience that we like to mix into everything from massage to sex. I'm not always into the drawing blood thing (that's more his turn-on than mine, so I try to please) but I've really enjoyed digging my claws deep into him as he makes me cum. I have even given him a couple of cute little scars.

I'd love to hear if anybody else finds scratching play sexy.

BCG

i like the scratching thing........its nice to know that she is so into it that she doesnt care if she hurts me or not.....i dont know about the drawing blood thing.....but i like the scratching ;-)

Is it a "you scratch his back, he scratches yours" kinda thing??

I love it! Want him to lean back in a chair and it remind him of me the next day

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It's a big turn on to feel a set of nails being dragged slowly across my back. Makes me arch it, thrusting my hips forward. Happiness all round!!!

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Welts the next day are the sign of a good time.

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But what if your partner just wasn't up to scratch?

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Well BCG I think it seems like fun...as long as you keep your finger nails clean. I mean what if you were working in the yard composting and you decide to go for a roll in the hay....YIKES it is Bacteria a go-go. And while welt or scratch marks can be sexy and cool, puss is a definite turn off.

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yes it sort of helps me remember my last encounter and look forward to the next one

Scratching is just fine just as long as it's not to deep don't need scars or anything.
then again scars might be cool you could allways point them out later and say I remember that night.

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whew when i read the title i thought after having sex you needed to scratch. glad to see it's not a rash or critters!!!!
yes i like scratches both giving and getting

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You might wonder why i'm replying to my own post,and it's because i didn't post it dzbuster was at my house and he forgot to sign me out before he posted his comment lol.So he will get his scratches when he gets back lol.And my claws can leave some nice marks lol.Will take pics of scratches.

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I may get into trouble for saying this but Ironwood recently told me:

"I take it as a compliment if a woman tries to kill me during sex."

And along with pulling a guys hair when he goes down on you and a few other things, nails down the back is all part of losing control because of the pleasure he's giving you, and that can't be a bad thing!

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I'll let you off easy this time.

But I do have an ex-girlfriend who used to tell me how much she hated me during sex, whenever I would make her lose control.