Hey all, I've really wanted to try a small vibrator on my man to see if he enjoys it, but have a couple hang-ups. For one, I tried just a finger and while he seemed to really enjoy it while it was going on, he later said it was something he could take or leave. For another, I don't want him to feel pressured into it at all. We have a very open sexual relationship and have had anal sex, however I'm not sure he'd be open to the role reversal. Do you think this is just a mental thing? If not, then how would be the best way to ask without pressuring? Thanks already
Kate:redghost:

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I think actions speak louder than words kate,slip your tougue around there while you are goin down on him,It worked on me,I was ready to let her do anything. It was the most incredible experience I have had. Good Luck

you need to talk about it with him discuse how
he would feel about doing this and yes it may be
a mental thing all the things like if i enjoy this
dose that make me gay is a big block for most
hetro guys and the myth it makes you less of
a man to be fucked all float around the guys head
and be prepaed for the fact he may never want to do it
hope you both learn to love a new part of your sex lives
katekate42
best wishes axe

Kate, I agree with aflyerfan. Do what you know yourself feels good. I really can't believe he'd object!

If you don't want to put any pressure on him, just don't push! Plenty of lube and rub your vibe all around, balls and all, and for sure he will enjoy have\ing it buzz away outside. A few times like that and he will be encouraging you to slip just a little way in.......

Thank you so much for all your advice- it really helped me get up the courage to ask. He was all for it actually, which is quite surprising... I guess that's true love when you can be with someone for a matter of years and they just keep on surprising you

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Glad he enjoyed. My wife has used one on me a few times and it's a most unusual sensation and I did enjoy.

Not sure I'd mark it as "top thrill" on my list, but wouldn't turn her down if she did it again. I always get turned on whenever I sense she's having fun exploring and trying new things.

to me its quite a lot of fun and enjoynment, each time my gf gives me anal play.and all of my openminded friends with i talked about it told me the same. i think almost all men enjoys havin their ass be played with and even penetratedit. most are just affraid of tring, wich is usually a phisical thing, especailly they fear of becoming gay. -how silly...-

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