I'd like some feedback here. Do women think about dominating their male lover? Does it turn them on? If so, what do you like to do and how does he respond?

ummmmm....the thought never crossed my mind

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I'd really love to get more into dominating my man, however I'm not sure how he'd respond to some of my ideas. He's not a control freak by any means, but he's also not the kinkiest of guys either, so I'm afraid that being tied up, etc might be a little too much for him. DEFINITELY something I'd like to try though.

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boogieman you touched on a subject. i think the real question is how many women initiate sex. i don't consider words initiation.

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I'd love to be dominated by him ... I usually initiate sex and come up with ideas for new positions and places. I know he wouldn't like being tied up or blindfolded. I have asked him to be more aggressive and dominating - still waiting (sigh).

I am a switch And proud of it. Depending on my mood.. I can be either dominatant or submissive. There are times where I want to be the one who is pleasured.. on his whim... to allow him to make the moves.. to allow him to decide what cums next (or who)... and then there are other times... when he wouldn't stand a chance...LOL.. when I don't allow him to participate... or direct me in anyway as to what would please him. Don't get me wrong.. my ultimate goal is to always bring him pleasure... but when I feel dominanent.. he will gain his pleasure in the way in which I decide.

I have often fantasized about tying a lover to the bed.. often with soft silky scarfs... and taking complete full advantage of every inch of his body... to drive him absolutely crazy with passion.. to bring him to the edge.. time and time again.. without allowing him to actually orgasm.. hehehehe.. to position myself right over his mouth... so that he can pleasure me.. and once he is completely into it.. moving away... hmmmm... what complete delicious torture that would be for both of us...

I think Dzbuster hit on an interesting point...Dz, you should start a poll/ thread in Gen sex discussing the sexual initiator role.....

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Mmmmmmmmmm...........yep I have to agree with Jennaflower there............

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I am most always dominant with men.
I prefer to be in control, to decide what happens when, where, how (and to whom)
With other women though.... *sigh*
I am passive to the point of being a submissive with some women that I see.

WW

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i dont even want to zip my fly unless im told, will someone please guide me...i need an oar.

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I think I am also a switch, sometimes I like dominating, but sometimes it can really be exciting to have my wife totally in control. But, she doesn't get into that role very often and I kind of wish she would