Okay, the man I am with now has been my first consensual sexual partner. Up until three days ago I did not let him cum in my mouth when he was getting a blow job (from me of course.) So, we are in the moment and I let my judgment lapse and boom, he cums in my mouth. After I am done and all the blood has rushed from my head he says to me "You didnt swallow that did you baby?" Well fuck! Yes, I did, it just shot down my freakin throat. So, in this moment of PURE embaressment, I lied. I pretended to spit it out in the bathroom, so my first question is....Do you guys want girls to swallow your man juice? And if not, do you really want us to spit it out? Okay, so I am back in the bedroom now right and here I am, all flustered and sort of embarressed, and he jumps on top of me and we start to get it on. Well, this was the WORST sex I have ever had, in fact, it didnt even last 5 minutes, hell it didnt last 3 before he was like "Im tired now. " Well fuck, I didnt even climax. I was sooo pissed. I was so mad, I slept on the couch. I was used. Here is my last question:After he was done blowing a load in my mouth, what should I have done? Should I have just gone to bed? What? I don't know what to do in that situation and any help would be great. Thank you!!!

((Im sorry for the hostility in this post, but I am still upset. I have never felt like this with him and it brings back bad memories. Thank you all for understanding.))

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I dont think a guy HAS to come in your mouth. I would never turn down a bj.... even if i didnt finish in your mouth. It feels better to finish that way. but its never a MUST for me.

I also never mind if she does finish me in her mouth and then spits out the results... he should be thankful you are blowing him in the first place! Does he go down on you?

Are there other guys out there for you? Maybe that should b a consideration...

Nurse, the answer to your first question is "yes". Men love to watch women swallow. But then, a variety of places is good. However, I feel you have to want to do it, not just because that's what he wants. I would not want my lover to do it for me, if she didn't "like it". I feel what should've happened next, is a return of favor.

]I was under the impression this was regarding someone much more mature and sexually comfortable and experienced. I can only share MY view of the situation.

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If sex is a "situation" for you and not an alternative to the bull shit of the world, I guess I don't have anything to share.

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This guy sounds like he will continue doing shit like that.

DO NOT HAVE A THREESOME.

God only knows what he'll try to do there.

It doesn't matter what other people do, whether other women swallow, spit or duck. The fourth choice there is letting him cum on you somewhere which can also be nice if the mood is right and both of you want it.

The point is he should have asked before he came in your mouth. A lot of women don't like that and it's common knowledge amongst guys. Any guy who doesn't check, doesn't care. If he doesn't care whether or not you want him to cum in your mouth and does it anyway, there will most likely be other things he doesn't care if you like that he'll do to you anyway.

BE CAREFUL.

To let you know, my wife always swallows, unless I exercise option 4. She likes seeing the cum fly from my cock so that's okay with her. I've had girlfriends in the past that swallowed, some that spit, and some that simply WOULD NOT let me cum in their mouths. In every case I told them I was going to cum before it happened. They chose their course of action, not me. That is except for the very first blowjob I got in high school. I came in her mouth before I knew what was happening. I apologized profusely. She was one that did not want any cum in her mouth! I guess I must have apologized enough, becasue she continued to blow me on a regular basis. Really good head for a high school girl too. Then again I was a high school guy, just the thought of a blow job made me shoot my load!

Just be careful with this guy. I say dump him and find someone who cares.

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Nurse Traci---I agree with everyone else!DUMP HIM!Sex should be
an act that everyone enjoys.He sounds very selfish.A girl that I
really cared about,would do me,because she knew that I enjoyed
the act.I could tell that she;really;didn't enjoy it herself.I;diplomat-
icaly;made sure that she didn't do it anymore.If it's not enjoyable
to my partner;it's not enjoyable to me. Irish

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I always give a sign when I'm gonna cum so my wife can prep for the load or stop and switch roles to prolong the whole experience... I love it when my wife swallows, I love it when she let's it shoot on her, I love it when she brings me to the edge of orgasm and then stops... I just plain love it when she touches me... period. I feel it was somewhat rude of him to leave you high and dry also. He could have at least reciprocated and brought you to orgasm with his mouth. You should not have been embarrassed though. I suggest a nice chat to discuss your feelings with him... if he's not receptive to your feelings, let him go... there are a lot of guys that are! (Probably more than you think...)

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Aquaman43---I always get my wife off; at least;three(3)times;by
hand;just to be sure.Always have;always will. Irish
P.S.A satisfied customer is a customer for life.The trouble is;old
girlfriends!

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I usually eat her pussy till she cums. I firmly believe that if she's had one guaranteed "O" she'll be more giving to me. So far that's worked.

Traci, he should have eaten you out, then begged you to squirt in his mouth before squirting in yours. By the way if you can squirt in a guys mouth, more power to you! I like any vaginal wetness whether it is projectile or oozing. YUMMM-MMEE!

Woof

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"Even a man who is pure of heart
And says his prayers by night
Can become a wolf when the wolfbane blooms
And the moon is full and bright."

I agree with the sentiments expressed thus far: in short, dump him. Now, I haven't had my vegetable juice yet so forgive me if I'm a bit obtuse today but I'm more concerned by your statement below. Does it mean what I think it means? If so, perhaps this latest "dalliance" with this seeming a**hole is symptomatic of something larger? (NT, please understand that I'm not trying to pry in your private affairs, the statement just struck me as odd and a chill ran down my spine when I re-read it.) If I've totally misread the statement and I'm totally off base, please feel free to stomp me to the ground.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by NurseTraci
Okay, the man I am with now has been my first consensual sexual partner. [/QUOTE

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Nubian---You're not alone in reading things into something.The
first thing that I thought of was rape or sexual abuse. Irish
P.S.It;probably;stems from having two daughters.Right away;
you get suspicious&overprotective.

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I think he was being an a**hole too. Blow him if you feel YOU want to, not because he wants you too, that is how it should be.

The guys I have given bjs to have always respected whether I wanted to swallow or not or whether if they could even cum in my mouth, and have always been cool about my decision. If they weren't, they're history!

But they do love it if you decide you want to swallow but don't feel you have to.

It shouldn't be a one way street so he should return the favour as well.

Be brave girl! Don't let him walk all over you.

I'll try not to ramble too much here, because most of what I want to say has already been covered; Like Nubian & Irish, I sense that you have some deeper issues to deal with, more's the pity you're having to deal with an insensitive prick now, too! Let's see, he brings up a 3sum w/your friend in the middle of sex, cums in your mouth w/ no warning, embarrasses you about whether you swallowed, leaves you hanging... no, I'm not being unfair to him at all, he's an asshole! Now, I won't tell you to dump him, but you've gotta see some ugly trends developing here... & I think you already know what you must do... it bothers me to see you mistreated, and especially this way, cause my answer to your question is I do enjoy cumming in a woman's mouth, but it has to be on her terms, not mine.
(Yep, I think I just repeated what everyone else said, but I had to put it my 2 cents anyway)

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ALright folks....it turns out that I have left a few things out. First, I am 20 years old and when I was 15 I was raped. I have come to terms with that. Second, the man I am with now, I have been with him for four and a half years. Up until the other night, I would never let him cum in my mouth. He asked me (which I obviously failed to put in my post) and I said yes. I mean, after four years, you have to try new things. Third, yes he can be an asshole, just like every other person that has responded to this post. We all have our asshole moments, but at the moment when he asked me, if I would have said no, he wouldn't have blown a load in my mouth. Now as for me not getting off, I was just upset thats all. That had nothing to do with him....I could have finished myself off or I could have not lied to him and told him that I had cummed. Its plain and simple. He is a great guy and he has never pressured me for sex. Trust me on this issue because I have dumped many of men for that. Thank you all for your concern. ***As for my threesome post, him and I discussed a few things...but I will discuss that on that post.***

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