I frequently see picture posts on here with labels referring to girlfriends & wifes as sluts, whores, etc...I realize this is a sexually explicit site, but do you really find it acceptable being referred to as a slut, whore, bitch by your SO? Just curious, b/c I find it very disrespectful.

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I dont like it, if Bilbo rattled them off at me, oh man, it would not be pretty.

Bitch i can deal with *L*, but it depends also for that word on the context its being used in. But use the others, pain WILL follow!

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I'm with you , Divot, on this one. Perhaps we are from an old school where these terms have a different connotation to us, but I tense and scowl the same as you. I consider us lucky that we have our sexy Pixies ladies that are open and honest with the excitement of teasing, and passion of sharing sensuous pleasure with us and feel damn grateful. Our community seems to be somewhat unique with the real relations and bonds formed here, from most online sites. That makes this a special place with special people that I hold in esteem and sure as hell don't like disrespect shown to them. I've been told I am too defensive sometimes so I don't comment unless I 'know' one of our ladies has been offended, but insulting them is insulting this place and all of us.

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Personaly I am one of few women that take bitch as compliment as we were in a club one night and i refused to dance with someone and he called me bitch and my friends all turned at same time and said her title it Goddess Bitch lmao..

Other terms -die and be warned as i will hurt people over it

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I used to be very sensitive to men who posted pics of their "slutwife" or "cum whore" etc. Then I learned that there are aspects of sexuality like cuckholds and men who really get off on the idea of their wives fucking around. Their wives are aware of the situation and it is an aspect of their relationship. As a moderator it's often difficult to know whether this is the case or if it's meant as disrespect or if the wife is aware her photos are being published at all.

Would I be ok if a man responded to my pics by calling me a sexy cum slut???? no

Woud I be ok if some one I trusted in the heat of the moment called me a sexy cum slut??? maybe

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I have no partner so I guess this doesn't apply, but I do feel uncomfortable to see such posts, and I sometimes wonder if the wife/girlfriend knows their picture is being posted. If they know about it and are happy about it, then that's great, but there will no doubt be some pictures posted without the consent of the person in them

If a partner of mine were to post pictures of me without my knowledge I would be mortified, even more so if the pictures showed any part of my face or a recognizable part of the room I was in. Add to that the inclusion of a title of slut, bitch, whore, and I'd be hanging them by their balls if I ever found out about it.

That said, I have been known to get off on being called bitch/whore/slut by a close friend I play with on the phone and cyber with. That's role play though, and both of us know that, and we have many a conversation about limits and what's ok or not ok, how far he can go in that direction with me, how far he's comfortable to go etc, etc. I wouldn't accept this from just anyone I cyber with, I guess it's all about communication and consent, just the same as if someone's posting pictures of another person.

Excellent feedback...I gues I am from old school, too, PF. I have had women who wanted me to talk dirty to them, and I will oblige to a point. But referring to them in such derogatory terms, I just won't do. Even if I am in the midst of a one-night stand (and I've had a few), which probably means the girl is a bit "loose" herself, I respect her enough as a person not to use such utterances. Don't get me wrong, if I KNOW she wants "dirty talk", I have NO problem begging her to "suck my cock", etc. But no whore, slut, bitch, etc. Besides, even if she fits that category, do I really want to keep reminding myself that I am with such a woman? Not if I respect myself at all!!! Thanks again for the replies!!!

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I wish all the ladies were pies on the shelf...and I was the baker because I'd eat them all myself.
I wish all the ladies were potholes in the road...and I was a dumptruck because I'd fill them with my load.