Have you ever gone through a period of sex avoidance?

What are some of the reasons you have turned down or even avoided sex?

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Twisted my knee last night. Originally, the mammal I'm married to and I were planing to have sex. No way.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

Some days I just don't feel sexy, and nothing he can so or do fixes that

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Gone thru many periods of sex avoidance.

Sadly, none of them were my idea...

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

I'll have to amend the above statement. About this time 5 yrs ago, I did initiate a period of abstinance, due to an illness & some real pain in the balls...even then it was tough to resist the sirens' call...

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

I had a really stressful job that took the wind out of my sails, so to speak. I wasn't in the mood for anything. There's still some times when I'm not exactly enthusiastic about being intimate but that's more situational.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

On the rare occasions I have declined sex it has been because of depression and or stress.

Or doctors orders of course.

I can only say .... "You know my story Lil!"

a few times i was pissed off and broke the rules about never taking a disagreement toward the bedroom. a couple times i was sick with flu. once i had kidney stones. once i was all self righteous and filled with bullshit indignation. other than that, i'm male and there really is no reason, only lame excuses and selfish shit. i've really grown up much more and matured quite a bit since.

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I like; a) taint brushing: b) a good cigar: c) our juices together; d) champagne: e) protein squirts; f)more of these; g)much more of these; h) Damn, slide that thing into me. Deep!
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The surgeries I've had definitely put the brakes on while I was still healing and sometimes colds have had a similar effect for short periods of time.

I'm in one now...for physical and emotional reasons. Not sure when I'll be coming out.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

ah...NO, just realize that there are droughts so when it rains got to take advantage of it

I went through a period of abstaining from any sexual contact after breaking off an abusive D/s relationship a few years ago. I was naive, and did not know how to see through her quiet words of "comfort". I have also gone through one or two (thankfully) brief episodes since for other reasons such as illness. Moving here was a bit rough...

I do not prefer it, (abstaining) and avoid it.

I give myself control and the right to fuck whom I please when I please.





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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

I've gone through 'sex avoidance' as you put it Lil. Basically, sex has avoided me for years! lol!

:P

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You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

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Sickness, stress, health reasons and other stuff.

I've been sick with this stupid head cold so I'm not in the mood.