So I'm going out (with the girls) for the first time in a LONG time and I've been through all my going out clothes...some of them don't look bad, but none of them make me look sexy....I'm just not ready to look 'Mumsy', even if Mumsy is pretty and feminine. None of my 'feel good' sexy outfits look nice on me anymore and my figure is virtually the same as before I had JR so what's going on?

When did I turn into the fashionless frump that can't carry anything off any more? And more to the point, what the f**k am I going to wear to the bachelorette party on Saturday night?!


AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH !

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Is the problem figure or image? And is it your problem or does everyone see it? Is it because you are not the same woman who wore those clothes before?

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After all the hormonal upheaval you might consider a mini makeover. New moms put so much energy into raising baby. Time to take a moment for yourself now!

Go get your hair, nails and toes done. Treat yourself to a new outfit. Those empire cut blouses that are like tunics (thigh length) are so cute over boot cut jeans and heels. Oh...and a brand spankin new bra might be in order. Nothing feels better than proper support. So get measured (to compensate for the recent changes) and buy a functional, yet pretty, new bra.

And have fun Loulabelle!

*hugs n hugs*

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Lilith - I think it's that I looked like this before I was pregnant and just hadn't looked at myself in the mirror properly. I think the now, the reality has hit me, added to which it's more important to me now to look sexy not frumpy.

Lixy - I know that those things would help, apart from the tunic thingies....I know they look good on me, and that's probably what I'll end up wearing, but they are so 'Mum-trying-to-look-good-but-can't-show-any-skin-at-all'....I need to buy a corset to show myself off to my best, I think! lol

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Crisis averted! I tried on the new dress I bought recently again, and have changed my mind about it. It's low enough cut to be sexy and 'daring' but in a good way. I look sexy yet classy in it, I think, but it's bit more 'clubby' than my tunic top.

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Wear your smile...it is beautiful and very fitting.

And if you need help picking out an outfit, please feel free to model for us!

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We were born involved in one another.

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Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Loulabelle i think all of us moms want our sexiness to show..
we dont' want to be frumpy at all.

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"Tomorrow is another day" Scarlette O'hara monologue..

socrates last words.. " i drank what?!"

Lou........... you of ALL people can't possibly do frump!

You are just too sexy a woman! So show us a pic of you smiling in your black number and us pixies will let out a low, collected whistle!!!

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Afternoon Delight

Delightful Rendezvous!

Is the love I gave her in the past, gonna be enough to last, if tomorrow never comes........

I can help you pick something pretty from the drawer.

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Lou, I believe you could make burlap sexy.

Glad to hear you've found an outfit to your liking... have a great time out with the girls!

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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Yep, Aqua nailed it there Lou.

You have a great time!!!

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Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

Hope you had loads of fun!

Hi Lou

90% of sexiness is in the mind. Everyone here knows what an incredibly sexy lady you are, have the confidence to believe it yourself.

I hope you enjoyed the girls night out and didn't get up to too much mischief

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Well, I'm pleased to report we all had a great and safe time! I didn't get home until 2.30am (I TOLD Fussy not to wait up, but he didn't listen!) and spent most of the night dancing and giggling at the effect my incredibly beautiful girl friend had on every man she made eye contact with.

Some random bloke old enough to be my Dad kissed me on the cheek at the end of the night, so clearly the sexiness vibe was half working - I must've been giving off 'old and sexy' vibes not 28 years, 364 days old sexy vibes! Oh well, I don't want anyone other than the one I have anyway, so it's not important.

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Hi Lou

Glad to hear you had a great time. It sounds like you still got 'it'.

Happy Birthday for yesterday

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