Do you feel sexier now than you did five years ago?

Why or why not?

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No.

Because I get (a lot) less sex than I did 5 years ago.

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I am older, fatter, uglier and generally I dont feel as good as I did about most things now compared to five years ago. I think I am a better person now though.

Yes, much. Pixies.

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I'm with Lil on this one. Pixies alone has made a dramatic impact on my life, allowing me to more fully explore a side of me I'd kept hidden for many, many years.

Not even taking Pixies into account, I feel sexier now simply because I *like* myself more than I did five years ago. I like the person I've allowed myself to become, slowly but surely, over the last five years. Major external changes, major internal changes = someone who's happier, more self-assured, and more willing to open herself up to great sexual enjoyment.

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Well, I have to say yes I do, I am only 21 so that may explain alot, but I was a very mature 16yr old, maybe hard to beleive but true lol

Five years ago wasn't a particularly sexy part of my life, but I feel a lot less sexy than I did, say, 8 years ago, or 3-4 years ago.

Mainly because I'm a lot fatter and therefore don't receive anything like the male attention I used to. I've never been the kind of woman who gets whistled at by builders, but being at this weight, I notice that I don't even get smiled at/doors opened for me. I've learned that being an unattractive woman is the same as being invisible to men who don't know you.

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I'd have to say no, five years ago I was at a lower weight and much more confident in myself. Hopefully in the next five years I will be able to say I feel sexier than I do today.

I'd say no. Looking alot older, feeling alot older, have lost alot of wieght due to stress and other things. Also alot of the reasons mentioned above. Way out of shape.

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i feel sexier, i'll chock that up to maturity and confidence.

i don't look sexier...i'll blame that on the kids.

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Very interesting replies, and I love the candor.

I feel older. My back acts up way too often, my hair is greying almost as fast as it's thinning, I've lost the "tightness" that my body once had from martial arts, and in general...I feel tired.

But damn, I feel sexy! And a great deal of that is because of Pixies.


Lou - I'd smile and hold the door for you. And you can bet I'll respectfully appreciate your body as you pass by.

And maddy...you made quite a move leaving Texas for CT! Pardon the expression, but that takes real balls. You look great, from what I remember of the old pictures (hint, hint, hint ) and you've got a lot to be confident about. Rumor has it you polish up nice for holiday parties too.

Aqua - You're still a sexy beast in my book.

NHKG - Wait until corn season hits! Mr. NHKG will freak out!

wyndhy - I beg to differ...you look sexy as hell!

Cobalt & Bob - Growin old ain't for sissies!

Da-Nuff - OMG...21 years old? I didn't feel sexy at all when I was 21! You're way ahead of the game!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

awww. ty. ~x~

but...how do you know that? you've never seen my nekkid bod. *blink*

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

I have a de-blurrifier that I applied to your AV.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

but that's not us.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

I feel much sexier now than I did five years ago. Of course, that would have put me too at 16... At 16, I had never been kissed (only got my first kiss at 19). At 16, I was ugly, or at least I perceived myself that way... Since then I have learned to love myself, and have been loved. Pixies has been a tremendous help for me in my road to sexiness.

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Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
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