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Too tired for sex
I'm getting there  I vow to never let it get that bad but damn I'm tired. What I'm wondering though is;
When you have been too tired to have sex, have you 1) had it anyway? 2) regretted having it afterwards?
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10-21-2005, 06:04 AM
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I've passed on sex because of being tired, but keep in mind that Mrs. WI is rarely agressive about initiating intimacy. If she were persistant, she would probably have talked me into it.
I've also regretted having sex when I wasn't in the mood. It's hard to describe, but I experienced a kind of "anticlimactic feeling" afterwards. Dunno. Not that the sex was bad or that I didn't enjoy being with her, just that I just didn't get something out of it and I still don't know what it was that I missed.
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10-21-2005, 06:19 AM
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WI's first paragraph applies to me. I can't remember regretting sex, though. I think I just haven't had it when I'm tired. Waking me up for sex is fine . . . now I'm randy! What was the question again?
Oh yeah! And this week, I've had to adjust to new hours and was really tired. I feared for my sex life but thankfully, I adjusted.
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10-21-2005, 08:44 AM
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pixie of the wood
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had it anyway? sure, sometimes
regretted it? never
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10-21-2005, 09:17 AM
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If you've lived long enough to have had sex more than once, then both of these feelings are almost inevitable.
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10-21-2005, 09:42 AM
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Had it TONS of times when I was tired/arthritic/cramping/just not in the mood. If Mr. Osuche is willing -- I'm going to MAKE myself willing. I'm like a squirrel that hordes nuts for winter.
And no, I've never regretted it......just regretted not hording *more* nuts. 
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10-21-2005, 10:05 AM
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I do get too tired. Especially lately with my new schedule of getting up very early and he is a night owl so sometimes I do just lay there and tell him to go ahead. I don't regret it, but it's better if I'm not yawning my head off.
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10-21-2005, 10:36 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by TinglingTess
I do get too tired. Especially lately with my new schedule of getting up very early and he is a night owl so sometimes I do just lay there and tell him to go ahead. I don't regret it, but it's better if I'm not yawning my head off.
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OMG...isn't that the worst? "I'll roll over and you can fuck me while I go to sleep. No really, it's fine." ha ha
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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10-21-2005, 12:38 PM
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Been tired aplenty...but never regretted it.
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10-21-2005, 03:22 PM
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I've been WAY too tired for sex but tried my best to pleasure my partner. Life can get busy for all us so I think practically their will be times for whatever logistical reason, sex is not going to happen. However, I never like to be the one closing the door on sex because I'm tired or don't feel like it because I don't like it when someone does that to me.
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10-21-2005, 04:09 PM
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I agree with Alter... yes I have been to tired for sex, but rarely do I use this as an excuse because I don't like it when it's done to me. Besides, once I get going I forget how tired I was in the first place.
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10-21-2005, 05:04 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by HappyPlace
Besides, once I get going I forget how tired I was in the first place.
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exactly!
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10-21-2005, 06:45 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilith
I'm getting there  I vow to never let it get that bad but damn I'm tired.
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10-21-2005, 08:44 PM
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I thought my wife started this thread.
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10-21-2005, 10:12 PM
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The sad thing is waking up the next morning and not remembering if I actually finished what I started because of my state of tiredness the night before. Then again, that could just be my old age! 
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