Ok i'll admit i'm a guy, I like getting my kinks out of my shoulder blade worked out and pressed and kneaded very hard...so I have a pretty high tolerance here for pain as I believe in the pressure poitns and things like that...

but when it comes to my g/f she can't really take the elbows or pressure points that I like, so I'm at a bit of a lost of how to give her a decent massage without her saying, "that's too hard, etc." Now she is gone for the next week so I can't really ask her this so where do you ladies like to get massaged the most and how?

thanks for the info.

I can't be of any help because I love having my back massaged hard. I want those elbows and thumbs dug into my muscles.....now, if only I had someone to do it "sigh"

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The problem is if I ease up its more like i'm just stroking her and than she compalins that i'm trying to tickle her lol, i can't find that balance. Anyone got a website for massaging 101 haha.

(freaky models but here) http://www.massagefree.com/index.html

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ROFL @ the freaky models!

All I know is, I want the massage to last a long time. I guess you'll have to adjust the pressure so it's not too hard, not too soft. Maybe reread Goldilocks?

Massage oil might help relax her, too.

:grin:

I tried giving Mrs. WI a rough massage like that. At the end, I asked her if it feels good and she replied.....






"It feels good when you stop" lmfao

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On my way!

You and your lady just have to come to an agreement on what she likes. The essential point to remember is that you have to communicate with each other. The purpose of the massage also often times dictates the amount and type of pressure to be applied.

Yeah, what he said. However, let me tell you this, if you touch my back you damn well better be ready to massage it hard, scratch it or kiss it all over! lol

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The problem most guys have on us sensitive ladies is they are giving us massages because we are tense is when we are tense, and you add that elbow it just causes us to tense up more and the muscle tries to protect itself from what it thinks is abuse. So it clenches tighter and becomes even MORE sensitive. At which point you get the, "okay, thats enough" bit.

Best advice I can give: Start with some warming massage oil, start with the light pressure of just smoothing it across her skin like you were applying lotion, slowly (and by slowly I mean every minute or so not every 5 seconds) increase the pressure and tell her to let you know when it gets to be too much. Chances are, you'll be tired before the pressure increases too much for her to take.

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I think Mrs. WI is just pretending to not like it. She's afraid if she relaxes too much during a massage, I'll jam my pecker in her butt.

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Roflmao ^^^

You're right, it was worth waiting for

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That is too funny!

OMG LMFAO

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Now THAT'S what's called an "Indecent Massage".


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