Okay... so here I am.. watching my TIVO... (God bless whoever thought of it).. watching Dr. Drew from last week. The entire show is very interesting... trying to determine how the brain works differently for men than it does for women regarding sex... here is a tidbit of info that I would love to hear your opinions on... does your experiences support this or not?

What turns men on the most?
Physical Attributes 52%
Intelligence 9%
Sense of Humor 9%
Self Confidence 14%
Integrity 6%
Other 10%


What turns women on the most?
Physical Attributes 22%
Intelligence 19%
Sense of Humor 23%
Self Confidence 16%
Integrity 12%
Other 8%

Personally... I have a situation which if I could figure things out.. I might have finally an answer to "what am I looking for".......... after a few of your comments.. I will torture you all with my personal situation... LOL.. you poor souls...

Intelligence & humour are the most important ones for me but I don't complain if the physical attributes are, er hefty, too.

Sense of humor & integrity then intelligence for me.

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intelligence and self confidence more than the others

and some of those "other" atributes

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

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Does 'Other attributes' mean being a nice bloke?

I mean, the others are important, but I really just like nice guys....kind and sweet, respectful and generous of their time.

But confidence, sense of humour and intelligence really does it for me too.

From a physical point of view, dress sense and hair style matter more to me than 'colour of eyes', 'length of nose' or length of anything else, for that matter.....

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

I still stick by my guns so to speak and say 'if u can make me laugh a lot then i'll love you" lol

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Kristin

Intelligence and self confidence. I am truly a sucker for self-confidence. And no....I don't mean arrogance. Self confidence is being comfortable with what you are...and what you're not.

As for the "other" category -- I like a man who is passionate about something (cars, work, a hobby, philanthropy) and shows it. People without interests and convictions are IMHO boring.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Perhaps its a bit cheesy - but I'm only interested in soul.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

Soul food.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney