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Old 04-17-2005, 12:03 PM
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Lightbulb Denny's Ordeal

I wanted to update you all about what's happening with Denny. I know he has many friends here who would want to know...

Denny's been suffering for quite some time from atrial fibrilation. The docs tried to correct it through meds and through more aggressive means, but it didn't respond. This past Thursday, Denny had an outpatient procedure done. During the procedure, there were complications that landed Denny in ICU with a chest tube.

The following morning when the docs tried to remove the chest tube, Denny began bleeding uncontrollably and it was quickly determined that an artery in his heart had been nicked. He was rushed to the OR where they opened his chest and repaired the artery. Twice during the operation, he had to be resusitated (sp?) as his heart stopped beating. Also, hee was given two units of blood.

After two days in the surgical ICU, he was finally moved to the cardiac floor, and now he's got pneumonia. This morning, the surgeon removed the chest tube successfully and, God willing, Denny will possibly be coming home tomorrow to continue recovering.

So... an outpatient procedure turned into major surgery and near death. After much pain and suffering, Denny got some more news this morning... the atrial fibrilation has NOT been corrected.

I'll be here in Thousand Oaks with him. I took him to the hospital and will bring him back upon release, and I'll stay here and tend to him. Believe me when I say he will receive all the loving care I have to give.

He's not out of the woods yet. The pneumonia persists and we were informed yesterday that he's got some damage to the heart as a result of this whole experience.

He can use your prayers and good wishes! I'll keep you updated.
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:08 PM
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...He can use your prayers and good wishes! I'll keep you updated.


flutelady,

I had no idea! He'll be in and has mine! Thank you. (((Denny)))
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:09 PM
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((((Denny)))) those are big hugs for a successful recovery... (((flutelady))) I can't begin to imagine the range of emotions you have been through ... hang in there wonderful pixie lady! I'll be sure to keep both of you in my prayers for the coming days.
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:16 PM
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I wish for the both of you a fast recovery from this terrible ordeal.....my thoughts are with you Denny and Flutelady. There is by far nothing worse that not being able to do anything but put faith in the doctors and wait.....positive thoughts are being sent your way.
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:20 PM
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I had no idea. For sure my wife and I will keep him in our prayers. Our church also has a prayer chain and he'll be added to that. When you see him, tell him there's a lot of prayers going to for his well-being.

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Old 04-17-2005, 12:26 PM
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Our thoughts are prayers are with you Denny....Get well soon....
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:28 PM
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((((hugs))) for you both. While it must be awful going through something like this, I know it is just as hard to watch someone you love suffer and try to heal. Thoughts and vibes of love, peace,strength, and healing being sent westward.
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Old 04-17-2005, 12:39 PM
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((((Denny)))) and ((((Flutelady)))) ~~ I had wondered why I'd not seen much of either of you.

I am sending you both my thoughts and love. If there is anything else I can possibly do, please let me know. I would be happy to help.
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Old 04-17-2005, 01:05 PM
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Good Grief! I'm adding my prayers to the list here as well... passing get well and supportive thoughts along too. I wish I could do more.
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Old 04-17-2005, 01:20 PM
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best wishes and good vibes being sent to both of you, Denny get well soon and Flutelady bless you for caring so much.
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Old 04-17-2005, 01:22 PM
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OMG...in my thoughts and prayers for sure!!

*hugz for you both*
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Old 04-17-2005, 02:44 PM
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oh sweetie, thanks for sharing with us. I am so sorry to hear about this horrible ordeal. I have no doubt he's in great hands with you sweetie.
You are BOTH in my heart and prayers.

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Old 04-17-2005, 03:03 PM
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The BEST to you, Denny, for a COMPLETE and RAPID recovery. You're sure to get the BEST care with Flutelady by your side.
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Old 04-17-2005, 04:51 PM
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I know I'm pretty quite here but I wanted to add my thoughts and prayers for you.

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Old 04-17-2005, 05:06 PM
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Sorry to hear about the medical woes that Denny has had .... my best wishes, thoughts and prayers going out to both of you! Be happy and healthy!
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