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Powers of Persuasion
Do you ever have to be persuaded to have sex? Are you ever sorry you did?
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02-15-2005, 10:47 PM
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I was persuaded into having sex, yes. I lost my virginity to persuasion, but I cannot say that it's all his fault and he's a horrible person for it.
He said, "I've known you for years, it's time we get to know each other a little better" or something to that effect. And after a couple of days I agreed...And it was the time of my life lol
He did wait a long time.
If I could go back in time, yes, I would have waited.
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02-15-2005, 10:54 PM
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I think most people are sort of persuaded for their initiation. I'm also referring to general everyday sex with your S/O. Do you ever think you don't want to? Have you ever regretted it after?
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02-16-2005, 12:36 AM
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if anyone ever asked me to have sex i would probably think they are joking
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02-16-2005, 02:53 AM
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I'm usually the one doing the persuading...can't remember ever needing my arm twisted...
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02-16-2005, 03:52 AM
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Yep sometimes gotta be persuded....not regrets for it
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02-16-2005, 05:26 AM
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Yes, and yes.
Not often, but there have been times I should have backed away from some offers.
They usually hurt somehow, and I am now sooooo aware that there are times the
fly zipper should have been padlocked.
I have also been persuaded by some who were rightly amazing.
If you don't paddle the pond, you don't miss the quicksand.
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02-16-2005, 08:12 AM
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Yes.
A couple of times with my ex when I had virtually no libido (the relationship had problems) I was persuaded into sex, mainly because I felt I should since we hadn't done it in ages.
One time I found myself disgusted that I'd let myself be persuaded and I felt cheap and used and horrible. The other time, I actually had a panic attack half way through the foreplay and we stopped. It just couldn't continue.
Thankfully those days are over, and more often than not, I'm the one doing the persuading. 
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02-17-2005, 11:21 AM
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yes...i've not been in the mood and he's persuaded me, but i think i must not have been all that averse to it at the start or his...er... pursuasive tactics  ... wouldn't have worked.
and no, i have never once regretted it.
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02-18-2005, 04:57 AM
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I've been persuaded into sex by my SO. But only when I "just wasn't interested," or maybe "just not interested yet." I've never bent to persuasion when I was actually DISintersted, if you see the difference. Maybe that's why I don't have any regrets?
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02-18-2005, 05:24 AM
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That has been my theory all along.... I think often people are disinterested in the initial aspects but I have rarely seen, heard, noticed, anyone saying afterwards that they wish they had not participated.
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02-18-2005, 06:26 AM
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Mrs. WI has sometimes expressed that she's often in the mood for sex but doesn't have the energy for it as the night advances. The times we are on the fence about it and proceed despite the late hour...there are no regrets. I agree with your theory, Lil. Sometimes we just need a gentle nudge to do what we kinda feel like doing.
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02-18-2005, 10:24 AM
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Are there any guys around that have to be actually persuaded into having sex?????.......lmao!! 
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02-18-2005, 10:29 AM
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You don't have to be persuaded, do you Spikey? 
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02-18-2005, 12:07 PM
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I'm eminently trippable, on almost ay occasion. I rarely take convincing for more than 5 minutes.
But then, I suspect you all knew that 
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