*curls up into a ball and mewls in pain* I hate it when I come home for Christmas, my family just finished mashing my ego into the dirt. Why is it they have absolutely no respect for me? I generally act civilly at the worst to them, and don't try to start fights. It just seems like when I give them an opening, they attack me. As far as I'm concerned I'm no longer welcome with my own family...*sigh* I guess I just need a hug...mewwwww...;_;...

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- A Seeker's life is a quest within a quest - a quest for love within a quest to better one's self.

How 'bout a handshake? Find things in your life that do make you happy and focus on them. Good luck!

Yeah...thanks man. Seems like they already forgot about it anyway, lol - not sure from which side of my family I got my brains...

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- A Seeker's life is a quest within a quest - a quest for love within a quest to better one's self.

That's just how it is, Shadow Kitty Families suck sometimes. My family sucks most of the time too, I get accused of things I don't even do, and when it comes to my fiance--FORGET IT, I get some terrible shit about him.

Just remember, it's the holidays and maybe you ought to remind them to remember the same next time.

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It's a BOY!!

((((((((hugs))))))) I know families can be difficult to put up with. You have to accept them for who they are and not let them define who you are. Be better them and don't let bitterness take over.

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Just when the caterpiller thought the world was over, it became a butterfly!

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((((Shadow_Kitty))))

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

Family is something we don't appreciate until we don't have much of it anymore. You don't get to choose your family ~ generally they don't understand you, and often they aren't the types of people you choose to surround yourself with. But they are the closest we get to unconditional love.....you don't owe them anything, and you don't have to impress them. Cherish them as much as you can.

Trust me, it gets easier when you move out and you can get *away* from them anytime you like.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Like the old saying goes, "You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family", family is important, try to make things work, But if it doesn't at least you made the effort. It really hurts when family is against you, they are the ones that you need to turn to when you need to feel loved. It doesn't always work out, then you just have to move on without them, it is very hard to do.

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To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.
E. E. Cummings

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i always thought it was "you can pick your friends and you can pick your nose but you can't pick your friends nose"

hang in there shadow kitty...as you get older they tend to lay off a bit, let you love your life the way you want.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

(((Shadow Kitty)))

Hang in there.