A friend of mine was describing a book she'd read about couples and communication entitled, "The Five Love Languages." It's all about the way people communicate their love for one another--that no particular way is "right," but that a difference in preference among partners can lead to some problems in communication and hurt feelings. There's a online quiz here:

http://selectsmart.com/FREE/select....=5lovelanguages


with a description of the five love languages here:

http://impressivetech.20megsfree.co...velanguages.htm

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

My #1 was Acts of Service

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#1 - Acts of Service

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

To my surprise, Acts of Service was also my first. I'd have been good money I was a "Words of Affirmation" girl.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

I don't agree with mine, maybe I'm not in tune with myself.

#1 Physical Touch

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I correctly predicted my #1 PHYSICAL TOUCH

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#1 Acts of Service too!

BTW...Does anyone ever actually click those "You've won an hourly prize" pop-ups? LMFAO!

I read or heard somewhere that couples who, while relating a story of a shared experience with a group of friends or family, refer to their S/O for help recalling pertinent information...even if they know the information themselves...just to include them in the conversation...are a couple with a sign of a strong and lasting relationship. I just thought I'd share that with you all...but now that I have it seems kinda insignificant and off the topic, huh? LOL! Well...maybe not. Mr. Lixy and myself always draw from one another's memory when chatting with friends of something we did.

OK...shutting up now! I missed you guys and I think I'm babbling!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

#1 for me was also Physical Touch, which doesn't surprise me at all

No Lixy, I have never clicked on one of those pop-ups... and WELCOME BACK to you!!

(((Lixy)))

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
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It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
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As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
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#1 Acts of Service

#5 Acts of Touch.

Not a big surprise here on that ranking.

It's more fun if you pick someone who hasn't posted yet, and try to predict what would be #1 ranking for that person.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

Not a bad idea gekko...

I'm gonna guess you'd be Acts of Service

Only because that seems to be a popular result...

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Here's how I rated...

Your prediction for your #1 result: Physical Touch. Does that match your actual #1 result below?


#1 Physical Touch

#2 Quality Time

#3 Words of Affirmation

#4 Acts of Service

#5 Receiving Gifts

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

#1 for me was Physical Touch, which did surprise me, I thought I was "Words of Affirmation" girl too!

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#1
Quality Time
#2
Acts of Service
#3
Physical Touch
#4
Words of Affirmation
#5
Receiving Gifts

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.