Well, here's the story, basically.

Me and my guy (if you read my really old posts sometimes I talked about him and yes I am still in love iwth him right now which hurts a fucking lot), we were together sept02-sept03, of which may02-sept02 was long distance because I lived at home isntad of at school during that time.

And then, on sept03 (I didn't move back til Jan04), he decided for us to "take a break," but taht as soon as I move back, we'll get back together.

Well, I moved back Jan04, and I haven't seen him bc a lot of crap has been going on at his place (no money, lost his job, something like that), and so I was like okay, get ur shit together and then you can visit me. When I'm at school, he still lives like about an hour away, as opposed to six hours when I live at home.

So anyway, now, today, he finally said that he decided to move up north (michigian or something), so it means that getting back together with him would be pretty much dman impossible (i live in tx, in case anyone is wondering. dallas - home, austin - school, he lives, right now, between austin and san antonio.

so basically, when we took a break i always thought that i would get back together with him, and he wuld always be like "maybe" and shit, and now finally he told me a "no."

although me and him haven't been together for months, this is the first time i actually do feel dumped.

if anyone wants to comfort me... please do..

[just feeling very shitty]

You are doing the right thing raven. You let these guys know you’re alone and they will be on you like white on rice. PM somebody you know a bit about and just say hi. I’m sure just a laugh will make the day a bit better.

Your young fineness will be great. Just get through the moment.

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Well said PF.

I hum Monty Python's "always look on the bright side of life" when I get a kick in the guts.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

NOT to be a bitch raven18... I have absolutely no doubt that your heart is breaking.. and that there is nothing that can be said that will make that pain go away as if it never existed.. the best I (or anyone else here) is offer you hugs.. warm thoughts... and inspiration to move on.. and discover the great things that life has to offer...

now... that supportive stuff out of the way...

I gotta say... and I apologize if this is gonna come off bitchy... BUT.... your title of this thread... makes it painfully obvious to me that you have completely missed what Pixies is about... Yeah.. it is about the sex.. the chatter...and the fun... but more importantly it is the unreserved support that is so willingly given...

Sorry for your pain..I wish you soooo much love and happiness... but I don't think that you are giving credit to the wonderful supportive group of friends that make up this place...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> leaving thread now!!

You will feel shitty...hugging you hard..but it probably won't be the last time..and before long you will get to dump someone...it feels good sometimes to test both side of the fences

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Susan

Raven this is a place where people do care, there would be many that know the pain you are in, I certainly do.

It hurts like buggery and will take some getting over. You are young and beautiful so you will find guys lining up when they know you are single.

I send you big hugs and you can email me or PM me and I will give you support and a shoulder.

Grumble

thanks for the replies, i guess people do care here

oh, and sorry about the title, i was in a pissy mood then and i wasnt sure if i would be heard here or not

Not to worry, raven18. We all have bad moments.

Here's hoping that out of this something very special and good will happen. Best of luck to you.

((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) )

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

Hugs n kiss' raven. Im sure you shall be feeling well soon. Least i hope so.

N i know how much loosing someone sucks. Just hurts to no end

He's a jerk who dooesn't know when he has it good.

You're better of knowing now than later, but earlier would have been easier on you.

Wish I could be there for you, just to give you hugs when you need them. (I'm told I give great hugs, even though I am an ugly mug)

I hope you get over the slob quickly and have a great life, thats the best way to get over it.

Lots of hugs,
kgb253

Raven18,

While this is a real downer, if you want to dip a toe into the well

of sorrow, think what could have been if you'd tied yourself to this

person.

Your pain comes from the loss of what you thought you had, not

what little was there.

Find someone closer and warmer and enjoy the roller-coaster of

being young. Have good wholesome selfish fun before the world

calls you to toe the line.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Getting dumped bites, hard, having been on the receiving end more then once(twice by the same person, yeah I know my fault). Take your time, enjoy the single life for awhile.

When you are ready I'm positive that you will have no trouble finding somebody, you are beautiful, smart, and creative. Suprisingly enough those are traits that many men find attractive.

Take care, again I know it hurts and it may never fully go away, but life moves on regardless.

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"...I won't be your winter...and I won't be anyones excuse to cry."

"Even heroes have the right to bleed."

"I'm wakin up at the start of the end of the world

Poor Raven. You sound like you're in bits right now, but you won't have to face it all alone as we'll always listen and help if we can. You're much too special for us not to care.

Feel free to PM me or anyone here if you just want to chat and I know, sometimes having someone to listen who cares can make all the difference.

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