I'm interested in knowing (for those of you in long-term relationships) how often you have sex with your S/O?

As an addendum to the poll...

* Are you happy with the frequency you have sex with your S/O?
* What would you change about either the frequency or quality of your sexual encounters?
* If you are happy with the amount of sex you get, what's your secret to success?

Thanks all!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

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I answered 2-3 times a week
* I could have sex everyday...it's responsibilities and time that get in our way.

* I would like to date I have fantasies that I'd like to fulfill and some of them involve my husband but some don't.

* Mr. Lil is a great lover...my girlfriends call him the pussy man He leaves me lacking and wanting for nothing... that he has the ability to provide me, in the way of pleasure. I was not overly promiscuous in my youth and I think I am just curious and want to explore some avenues that I have not been down.

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I answered 2-3 times too. Shift work REALLY gets in the way, sometimes!!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

I answered 2-3 times a week too.....but had to decide exactly what "sex" meant when I did.....and I decided you meant intercourse...(and I'm feeling a bit like Bill Clinton with that answer ). If we were talking a BJ here or a grope and fondle there I would have answered 4-5 times a week....or more!

Mr. Lixy is 8 years younger than me, but I've had no problem keeping up with him and/or initiating throughout our entire relationship.....which has lasted 15+ years. The secret to our success has to be that I weeded through the shitheads till I found what I wanted and he waited for me! LOL! I really don't know.....I'm thinking maybe we're just lucky!

I'm very happy with our sex life and I don't think I can change a thing because.....if it ain't broke, I shouldn't try and fix it!

I answered 2-3 times a week too.

I also could make love every day, but life and busyness and a difference in needs, only allow us 2-3. I happily make up with some solo fun time.... when my s/o is not available or in the mood, with her blessing... that is where cyber can be fun too.

Nice interesting thread... will enjoy reading all the replies

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Life is intensely passionate

sorry can't answer this

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

Isn't two or three times a week the national average in Canada and the US?

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Susan

If 2-3 times per week is the average, I'd like to know some average men. Everyobe I know isn't getting enough...me included.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

your telling me!

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

4 - 5 times.... its ok
we do lot of experiements too

Sometimes more sometimes less - sometimes I'm working too hard and tired sometimes she is - noone gets uptight - it seems the same for all of us.

I like this question and I think it's quality not regularity.

We have sex for about ten hours a week - is this an interesting alternative way at looking at it?

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

Why, yes...that is an alternative way to look at it. I know couples who have sex 3x/week and probably only get 30 minutes in. Hmmm...

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I thought about this some more and as I don't want to be misleading, I would say between five and ten hours a week.

Two hours (basically the morning/afternoon/evening) for the full menu and even up to an hour for Clintons.

I answered 2-3 times/week - but like Lixy, if you count the grope here, fondle there, necking somewhere else then it is lots more

Could have intercourse or oral sex more often, but like many others, time, pressures, etc seem to get in the way.

i also put 2-3 times a week....not my S/O yet...but def. my very committed bf who I live w/....w/ jobs and classes, we get to be super busy, but holding off for a little while definitely makes the orgasms etc. more intense!

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Xs and Os,
Kristin