My girlfriend, who is 33, often goes topless on vacation in front of her two sons, who are 15 and 13. I often notice them eyeing her but she says it is nothing to worry about. Should I be concerned?

I don't think so.... nudity is NOT something that one should be ashamed about... as long as she is going topless for the RIGHT reasons and not purely as an excuse to expose herself to them.

I wouldn't be concerned. She probably breast fed them and they probably grew up with her nudity.

Excuse me and I REALLY don't want to be rascist, but that does sound like and awfully American question. Try a holiday in Greece and you (are the sons) will see more tits and pussies of all ages than you could dream about. Of course - normal rules apply - you won't get to play with any of them. But they make for fine viewing.

i think hes talking abaout the fact that she exposes herself infront of her sons.

and how would that be racist? how can anything be an awefully american question, when its things everyone thinks about, i myself was confronted with this kind of thing when i was stayin round a mates house with a few other guys and my mates my walked round the house completely nude... i was a bit worried about it and was kind of thinking is it right.

david36,

Circumstances change cases.

My wife and I have a relatively relaxed attitude in re nudity inside our home. Our children, having been raised with that as the norm, probably assign less sexual significance to nudity than do children who grow up where the customary nudity taboo is practiced.

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I'm going to guess that the looks the sons give their mom is more due to curiosity. They are at that age where it's normal to wonder about the opposite sex.

I wouldn't worry about it.

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I wouldn't have the slightest problem with it. Nudity is only an issue because we say it's an issue. Presumably she has raised them this way, it wouldn't be an issue in to them.

i think its fine, at least that way they won't be really nervous when they see other womans breasts

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Porn_King - I guess I was saying that the question wouldn't arise in Europe or many other places. Being nude on the beach is no biggy and who cares? (Except me, of course, who still gets his jollies peeping at pussies through half-closed eyes, and pretending to be completely unmoved by the view.)

i think the biggest issue is that hes not sure its right for the kids to be watching her? when i was 15 i dont remember being curious with sex...... i remember bein fuckin obsessed