I was chatting with a fellow Pixie a couple days ago..about phone sex....and it got me to wondering..for those of you that participate in that activity....what makes a partner good at what they do in your opinion?

Do you like to be the one to talk? And listen to your partner moan and groan and give you feedback? Or do you like to take controll? Or do prefer to take turns? What can a partner do that drives you wild? And on the other side...what can they do to turn you off?

What was your best and worst phone sex experience?

~Eliza

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"Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy" ~Anaïs Nin


"The full moon is calling, the fever is high.
And the wicked wind whispers and moans.
You got your demons, you got desires
Well, I got a few of my own"
~The Eagles

Give me your phone number and I will tell you.



:lust:

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ive never had phone sex b4 so i wouldnt know sorry Eliza . id love to give it a try though!

i actually enjoy listenin to the moanin.... i dunno i think it turns me on more.. and i really don't know what makes a good partner, cause if you think about it, all it is is just masturbation, so its actually how good you are... ;-)

Building anticipation and having someone who is an active participant...telling oyu how much they want you and what they would do if you were next to them.

Good imagination, a sexy voice, and intelligence also help...

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I totally agree. Funny...in the past I could easily masturbate on cam in a chatroom for a bunch of strangers, but for phone sex I had and have to have some kind of relationship/friendship w/that person. It has to really mean something.

I once had a partner who lived far enough away that I could see him only about once a week, if that. I'd call him up, horny, and ask him to talk me through an orgasm. I became so conditioned to his voice, that I could cum anywhere at any time w/o being touched just from hearing his voice. Best conditioning I've ever experienced.

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Communication is the key.

what makes a partner good at what they do in your opinion? Good is a partner who is simply way into pleasuring herself, not acting, not sounding like a bad porn video.

Do you like to be the one to talk? Yes.

And listen to your partner moan and groan and give you feedback? Yes, but groans have to be natural -- if a woman is normally quiet when she masturbates then play-acting on her part is usually a downer.

Or do you like to take controll? I try to get a feel for what turns her on and I find a sly way to push that particular button.

Or do prefer to take turns? Usually not, but again if that turns her on I will go with her flow.

What can a partner do that drives you wild? Go for a third orgasm.

And on the other side...what can they do to turn you off? Sound fake.

What was your best and worst phone sex experience? Best too many to enumerate, but usually involve a first-timer, or a vibrator addict, or a multi-tasker who's also watching porn, or just a good masturbation voice.
Worst experiences are just women with little imagination who just sound fake, or shy ones who hang up right before they orgasm, although once I talked with a girl who forgot which button to push to disconnect from one-on-one, so when she was about to cum and while she was cumming intensely I heard her beeping different buttons. That got me off because it was so unplanned on her part.

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buma

I agree with osuche.. and with buma. I like to hear her moan as I describe what I am doing to her. And hearing her call out what she wants or how she wants it........ And for me... to also hear how wet she is!!!!!

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"Beware how you take away hope from another human being."
-Oliver Wendell Holmes

Funny this question should arise the very day I was reminiscing about past phone sex partners.

OK......I really shouldn't say this....but it jumped into my head as I was thinking and, well......here goes.......

(pardon the paranoia sound to it all)

What if.......when you think he is alone and you are alone....each on your respective phones......and you are moaning and groaning and telling him all you can't hold back and you whisper his name and tell him exactly what is happening to you and you yell out, "Oh Gawwwwwwd" and everything.......................

What if.........

What if.........

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he has you on speaker phone at his work and he ain't alone at all?????????


Sorry.......but I toll ya a long time ago, I have a paranoid side to me!

*runs from the thread..............lmao!*

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As long as they are all standing there with wood...lol

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active imagination, partners working with each other - and yeah - I like to hear the moans....

agree with osuche - sexy voice certainly helps....

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Lixy........ now you've hit my paranoia button......
lol...what if???

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"Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy" ~Anaïs Nin


"The full moon is calling, the fever is high.
And the wicked wind whispers and moans.
You got your demons, you got desires
Well, I got a few of my own"
~The Eagles

Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they're NOT out to get you!

Phone sex can be fun but afterwards I feel kinda goofy. Only way to get over it is to start again.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I actually haven't done telephone sex except with my wife, but I can imagine that the worst would be ... "For oral sex, press 1; for missionary position, press 2, for anal sex, press 3 ... etc." Somehow just doesn't capture the spirit of the game.