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Old 08-06-2003, 09:14 PM
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~@@~ Do You Have Green Eyes????

Or have you been posessed by the green eyed monster?

Are you a jealous person?

Is jealousy a sign of insecurity or posessiveness?

Is all jealousy unhealthy?

Do you like it even a little bit if someone is posessive or jealous about you?
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Old 08-06-2003, 09:23 PM
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I do actually have green eyes ....

but, I am not at all a jealous or possessive person .... of people or things .... never have been .... and I am grateful not to be tortured by those type of feelings ... NOT that I don't get feeling insecure over things that would make many others feel jealous....

I'm not overly comfortable when people around me are acting jealous .... though I do like it when my man is aware when he's with me of other men getting too close etc ... not really jealous/possessive, just making sure his claim is firmly staked! LOL
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Old 08-06-2003, 09:55 PM
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Nope. Not jealous at all...

People are not posessions and cannot be treated as such. However, I do expect to be treated well by my friends and mate.
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Old 08-06-2003, 10:17 PM
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I'll have a twing of jealousy but most of the time I realize it's about trusting someone you care for

I am over protective of people I care for
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Old 08-07-2003, 12:28 AM
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Or have you been posessed by the green eyed monster?
I wouldn't go so far as to say I was posessed, but he's paid me a visit from time to time.

Are you a jealous person?
I don't think so. I prefer that my S/O have plenty of friends, male and female.

Is jealousy a sign of insecurity or posessiveness?
Sure.

Is all jealousy unhealthy?
No, I don't think a bit of jealousy is unhealthy. I do think that there is a fine line though.

Do you like it even a little bit if someone is posessive or jealous about you?
To a small degree. Let's me know that they care. I would feel uncomfortable if my S/O didn't care in the slightest.
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Old 08-07-2003, 12:36 AM
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There were a couple of times I can remember where an ex was definitely out make me slightly jealous, and he succeeded. However, I really can't say I'm a jealous person.

As long as it doesn't get to be obsessive, then I'd say a little bit of it here and there is fine.

As far as others being possessive of me, I am in agreement with darogle...a tiny bit of it is nice, since it shows they really do care. But once it goes beyond a certain point, I don't like it or want it.
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Old 08-07-2003, 12:38 AM
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My eyes are brownish/green and I'm told they get REALLY green as I get sexually interested/aroused.

I can't say I've ever been overly jealous or possessive, but I wouldn't really want those traits in someone either. Especially possessiveness - it gets stifling.
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Old 08-07-2003, 01:33 AM
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my eyes are oh-so blue. sure i like it when someone is jealous of me, makes me feel wanted. just not to an extreme. O.o
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Old 08-07-2003, 01:45 AM
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Re: ~@@~ Do You Have Green Eyes????

Well, my eyes are most definately green.


Or have you been posessed by the green eyed monster?

Not posessed, precisely. Although I may get the occasional phone call.

Are you a jealous person?

I don't think so. I think everyone gets a little jealous sometimes. But there's a difference between a little jealousy you recognize and shrug off...and a load of jealousy you let run your life and ruin your relationships.

Is jealousy a sign of insecurity or posessiveness?

Quite possibly. Dunno. Maybe there are many routes to jealousy, and these are two of them.

Is all jealousy unhealthy?

Too much of anything in unhealthy. I think a little bit is normal. At least I hope so

Do you like it even a little bit if someone is posessive or jealous about you?

I like it when people are passionate about me. I don't get the same feeling when they're possessive or jealous. Now maybe that's not a good thing, maybe that just means that I don't like it when the obsession is really about them .
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Old 08-07-2003, 05:49 AM
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~@@~ Do You Have Green Eyes???? Nope. Blue.

Or have you been posessed by the green eyed monster? Probably but I was possessed at the time.

Are you a jealous person? No. Don't think so. At least not to any significant degree.

Is jealousy a sign of insecurity or posessiveness? Insecurity, I think.

Is all jealousy unhealthy? Could be if it takes control.

Do you like it even a little bit if someone is posessive or jealous about you? I think it's a little exciting to imagine somebody being concerned that another was seeking my attention.
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Old 08-07-2003, 06:00 AM
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OMG ... Lixy's post disappeared! Woe is me. It was here just a minute ago.
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Old 08-07-2003, 06:07 AM
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One of my eyes is greener than the other........so I guess it could be the reason I get that twinge that Booger spoke of. I don't get it in my RL so much as I do online and I'm assuming that's because alot is lost in the translation (feeling) of type! Either than or I'm much more intuitive in reading between the lines than I had ever thought!

I'm not so much a jealous person as I am a person who, if smitten with and receiving attention from someone, doesn't appreciate a sudden change in attitude with no explaination. Especially when I was the one persued initially. I'll voice (type) my feelings.......I don't hide my thoughts!

Insecurity? Yes! Posessiveness? No! Life goes on!

I do like it when someone seems jealous about me.....but not to the extreme of possesiveness!
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Old 08-07-2003, 06:31 AM
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Never, it is my biggest pet peeve in the world. I tend to take offense when someone acts jealous around me, life is way too short.
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Old 08-07-2003, 11:43 AM
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As a matter of fact,yes,my eyes are green. Well hazel to be exact.Thank you for asking. Jealousy? No,I have been inoculated against that disease.
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Old 08-07-2003, 01:21 PM
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Are you a jealous person?

Yep...not as bad as i used to be

Is jealousy a sign of insecurity or posessiveness?

Yep...but insecurity in a partner can have valid reasons for being there

Is all jealousy unhealthy?

It can be if taken to extreme....been there done that

Do you like it even a little bit if someone is posessive or jealous about you

Yep i dont mind it...but like i said as long as its not extreme...been there done that too
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