06-20-2003, 05:53 PM
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How Old Should You Be To Have Sex?
I'm 19, I, just recently found a really great guy I like. He knows I'm a bi- sexual and that I'm a virgin. I've only started to go out with him for about a month and half, but I've known him since I was around 14, we've been best friends since then. He's not really trying to make me but he hints that he would like to get closer to me. I'm not sure if I'm ready, I mean.. yes. I've been with a women, but... thats not the same. I don't know what to do.
I would love to bring our relationship closer but, I'm not sures...
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06-20-2003, 05:57 PM
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If you have doubts....then i'd say the time is not right for you...
There is no limit on the age for losing viginity....You should be confident in your choices
Good luck on your decision
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06-20-2003, 06:00 PM
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Welcum to Pixies Esperanza! I love the nic!
Go with YOUR feelings hun! Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything you don't feel is right at the moment! If he is a true friend he will wait and understand. Talk it over with him! Tell him how you feel! He can't read your mind and you can't read his. When the time is right you will know it and if he's the friend you think he is.....he'll still be around to take the plunge with you.
Best of luck and I hope you have a great time here!
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06-20-2003, 06:01 PM
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The rule of thumb I'd offer is that if you're not sure, you're not ready. It's different for everyone. For me it was 20, and when I was sure it was wonderful. Friends who weren't so sure don't say the same thing.
Trust yourself, you'll know.
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06-20-2003, 06:02 PM
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I agree wit Sharni !!!!!!!!!1
I told my Daughter(14 yrs) that she can have sex when she is 30 yrs.
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06-20-2003, 06:27 PM
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Um...............SlowRide hunny? I lost my virginity at 14 y/o! Oh geezzzzzzzzzzzzz! OK........let's say I was 14 and 3/4 (nearly 15)!
And you want your daughter to wait till she's 30? Holy Moly.....she'll go crazy! LOL! Good luck with that one sweetums!
PS.....I was more mature than most for my age....if that makes you feel any better! *hugs*
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06-20-2003, 06:27 PM
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That helps, I'm going to talk to him, I'm still not sure if I'm ready to go all the way, but i think it'll help if we talk.
Slow Ride: my dad said I couldn't have sex till I was 50!!! Oh well with that!
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06-20-2003, 06:52 PM
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Esperanza................*L* I guess it's a Dad thing, you think?
Lixy........Ida done you at 14( I had a different out look then)
at 14 I was sooooo horny all the time...........I think I tried to screw a pine knot one time............and once was all it took and later I found something much softer and wetter *wink wink*
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06-21-2003, 12:45 AM
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Slow Ride, how old r u?
You seem or act pretty young...
You should see my mom, she keeps telling me to
get a man, we're hispanic, she had me when she was 16. Now she's 35! She wants grand babies... She wishes!
14, all boys are horny at that age!
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06-21-2003, 12:56 AM
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Esperanza......I'm older than I act, I'm 44 yrs old......... I may grow old,but I refuse to grow up *L*
BTW........ the 14 year old Daughter that I spoke of has a twin brother.
and might I say welcome to Pixies,and I find hispanic Ladies to be very sexy
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06-21-2003, 01:12 AM
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I just wonder SR?
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Originally posted by Slow Ride
....... the 14 year old Daughter that I spoke of has a twin brother......
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Was your advise the same for your 14YO son? LOL
And welcome to the group Esperanza. 
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06-21-2003, 01:19 AM
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no comment *L*
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06-21-2003, 01:23 AM
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Funny, I have a twin brother!!! He's such a player though... unlike me, he went to a regular high school. I went to a all girls school till I was a Sophmore! Your 44, bet your also married.... to bad. Though, 44 isn't old. I haves a step grap. who's 46! He acts and gets girls half his age!
I have five brothers, I know how guys act! Aww... thanx... pantyfanatic (luv ya name)
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06-21-2003, 01:26 AM
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Esperanza.......... no I'm not married, I've been divorced for going on two years.
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06-21-2003, 03:31 AM
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well I am 50 and dont think its old. I was a virgin till I was nearly 20 and very shy.
Its not the age that matters, its when you are ready. If I was 14 i would have been a willing starter too LOL.
I have a 14 year old daughter too, going on 15 in August and i hope she doesnt become sexually active till she is 18 or so.
You have to be sure in your own mind Hun.
Good luck and good loving.
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