This afternoon I received an e-mail from a guy I "knew" at the university where I used to go before I transferred to the one I am at now. Normally this would not be a big deal, but this guy was a borderline stalker, and since I have changed my e-mail address from my previous one and left no info on where I was transferring to, I am a little bit concerned and quite curious as to how this guy found my address to write to me, seeing as it's been about 4 years since I saw him last.

Back at the other school, he learned my name from swiping my ID card through the cafeteria cash register, and started calling me and showing up at my dorm room with flowers, candy, and little gifts. He even made the point of dropping to his knees and taking my hand and kissing it! About a month later, I withdrew from that school for various reasons, and never told him I was leaving, and hadn't heard from him since until now.

But on to my question...while I'm generally bothered by this renewed situation, I can't help feeling a little bit turned on by his persistant attraction to me. I don't feel threatened really, but just very curious as to why he keeps pursuing me. Has anyone been in this situation before, and am I totally strange for liking this attention?

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