Do you ever imagine or fantasize about what sex with you must be like from your lover's point of view? In other words, put yourself in that person's shoes regarding your lovemaking?

I often reminisce about the first time my fiance and I made love, but through his eyes. That was the first time he ever saw my breasts, saw me naked for that matter, had intercourse with me in the missionary position, looking into my eyes as I came, and then what he must have seen and felt when he had anal sex with me, first on our sides, then with me on my stomach, and then up on all fours. I know what parts of all of it turned him on the most, and I can come just thinking about those times in particular, imagining that I am him.

Or am I the only nutty one with too vivid an imagination?

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I can't say I've ever really done that, but damn that sounds really hot. I will be trying this... probably in the near future.

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

The only time I've ever imagine this......(and all you ladies from 30 on up will know what I mean).....is when I am on top of him and looking into his eyes. I think......."Oh shit, I broke the golden rule of bending over my lover after the age of 30"!

LOL! Any questions......please don't PM me.....just reply here and I'll try and clear things up!

But to be honest BlueSuede......it's a very lovely and sexy thought and I can see how this would make you all creamy and such!

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Blueswede... I often did that type of visualization when I had a s/o... it is especially nice when you have an s/o who is very vocal and discriptive of his experience...

Lixy, I know what you mean...lol

And blueswede i too have done that. I thought I was the only one.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

Lixy - I am over 30, and have never heard that expression.... clue me in.

And yes, I have wondered what it would be like a time or two....

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Hmmm, I've never actually tried that, but I think I might like it. Thanks for the interesting idea!

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I wouldnt fuck me with a 10 foot pole....I am just not my type

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Skip, it's hard for me to explain exactly what I'm imagining, but it isn't that I am trying to imagine so much how my body must feel to him, such as the wetness, smoothness, or tightness of my vagina when he is inside of me, but more that I imagine how HIS body must be feeling. I imagine that I am inside HIS body and I can feel how aroused he is...how his lips and tongue must feel when he sucks my nipples or how his dick must feel to him as he is about to enter my pussy or my ass. I know, for example, that the biggest turn-on to him is fucking my ass. He said recently that there is no other feeling like it, that it isn't just the way it makes his dick feel but, he said, it's like "possession is taking place" (a big turn-on to us both since I'm a bottom and he's a top). When I imagine how he must feel emotionally and physically at that moment, I feel the blood rushing to my pussy, my clit gets hard, and it sets off firecracker orgasms.

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Well I have always wanted to be a lesbian, so that works.

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Skip<-----

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Oh gosh yes. Its a huge fascination of mine. Learning just how she feels when this or that activity occurs is a splendid course of study. Realizing that it is very difficult to describe these complex physical, emotional, mental reactions not withstanding. Whenever snippets of how our mingling of touch felt from inside her are always cherished.

OMG Lixy LMFAO.........once you hit 50 it applies to ALL positions lol

Mrs. WI was once on top of me with her legs straight out. She shifted them so that hers were inside of mine and after our orgasm, she told me that it really turned her on because she got to see what it's like for a guy to be laying between a girl's legs thrusting. If I had been paying attention, I might've gotten something like that out of it too...instead of being blinded by the bright colors! ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Never have done that but I think I might try it now...that was so hot!

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