How many of you ladies have faked it? Were you successful? Why did you fake it? Time, insecurity, just not doing it for you?

I will admit I have faked it once or twice in my long ago past but have learned not to give mixed signals if I want him to learn what he needs to do to please me. But I think I have faked both out of insecurity and for the sake of time.

Guys, have you ever known a woman was faking? Did you confront her? Did it alter how you had sex with her the next time , if there was a next time?

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10 points for me!

I have never fake it

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I've never faked it concsiously but there have been times when guys have thought I've come and I've not told them any differently....if they asked me outright 'Did you come?' I would have been honest but they never did so I let them believe what they wanted to believe!

I've been with guys who've faked though.....yes....I know.....don't ask me how they thought they'd get away with it, but they did......and once I couldn't believe that I'd made someone come AGAIN (after numerous previous sessions) and sneaked a peek at the condom to see if it was really full when he wasn't looking!!!!!! It was full and I confessed to him afterwards what I'd done!!!!!

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If waking it was illegal every woman would have a criminal record.

I have off days, where no matter what is being done to me, it just isnt getting me anywhere, and he gets so worked up if I dont come!

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I didn't say it was your fault. I said I was going to blame you.

I guess i will be the first male to respond, I have faked it when i knew she had faked it, but i really did'nt care if she figured it out, personally i wanted her to hoping she would ask why

I think we all have off moments, but i don't think it makes anyone bad, for instance i think that if a woman has to "fake it" she should tell her partner afterwards( if its w/someone special) why she was unable to achieve a climax be it something on her part mental block ect. ect. are if the man just did'nt do it for her, i think honesty clears the way to a whole new plateau in a relationship.

ok i'll shut up now.

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I used to~~~~~when I was younger~~~~~~~and before I had experianced it for real! Now I have learned to let go and to enjoy the sensations, but even though I no longer fake it, I feel there is more to discover!!!!!~~~~~~~~~can't wait to find out!!!!!!!

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I've faked it in past relationships becuase I was just getting bored and didn't really want to keep going after she had come a few times. I figured it was kind of rude to just stop after she was fulfilled, so I faked it. I didn't have to have the awkward "well, I'm just not in the mood, I only did it cause you wanted sex" conversation.

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Oh, and it wored every time.

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once or twice, but my motto is either i do or i don't...cum that is.

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I have never faked it exactly, but my S/O is known to not like long sessions and when she is wanting to quit, I have been known to lie to her and tell her I have gotten off when I havnt.

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When I was younger, yes. I thought I would never know what it was to have an orgasm with a lover and I didn't want to seem inexperienced and cold. Once I discovered how to relax and read my own body while with someone else.......I've never had a need to fake it.

Oh.....and I know for a fact that hubby has NEVER faked it.......with me that is! Dunno about his past.

I'm interested in the last part of Lilith's question though.......to the men. If/when you did find out she faked........how did/would you handle the next time if there was indeed a next time? Is that the correct question Lil?

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Yep yep.......curious if they confronted her about faking, just never had sex with her again, or tried something different.

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I've never even tried

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I have an agreement with my wife that she will never fake it with me. I can read her well enough that I know when she has had enough, or otherwise just can not have an orgasm at the time. I'm man enough to handle my lack of success, as I tried my best and I know she's had many from me in the past, and hopefully will in the future.

However, before we made our agreement, long before dating, back in the 'friends with benefits' days, she faked it a few times. Some times she faked it because I wasn't doing it right. Some times she wanted me to feel better. But, the oddest reason I found is because she knew I was going to give her an orgasm, and didn't feel comfortable with the fact that I could give her one and her boyfriend at the time (I know, I'm bad ...tsk, tsk) couldn't. She faked it so that the fact could stand that I couldn't go farther than he could.

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I am sure I have had past lovers fake it with me...to be honest, it would not really bother me (unless it was on a regular basis, then I would hope she would have the confidence to communicate with me so I can fix the problem )...however I have had to fake it a few times in the past with my last lover.

She had VERY strong inner muscles, and when she would orgasm, she would squeeze me, so hard that if I was about to orgasm...she would basically shut down the valves...and it was sort of frustrating hehe, but in a good way. After once or twice of this in a row, I would just flex a in ragged pattern and slow down (praise the PVC muscle). I know, a horrible problem lol.

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