I was at a party at the weekend and this girl who was collecting the invites was very friendly towards me.
She was looking at me and smiling every time I looked at her, she knows I'm married, my wife was with me, but, after a few drinks I arranged to meet her at 12 noon, on the pretext of a meal or drink. She doesn't know , but I purely want to get her into bed. She has agreed to meet me. Girls, do you think I should tell her, from the outset, that I just want a sexual relationship with her,or, do you think by her actions she has already told me, whatever the circumstances, she wants to f**k me.
She has been married, now single and I would love to meet up with her, just for sex, if she fancies, on a regular basis.
After 10 years of marriage, I would love a good f**k with a willing and different partner.
Give me your opinions please,
Thanks very much

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Sex is good.
But nothing beats the build up.

I can understand you situation. Yes you should be up front with her. One huge turn on for most girls is a married man. It's like something taboo. Which make you want it even more. My opinion is you always need a part-timer. Someone that you can be with and both of you can go on and live your seperate lives and meet every once in a while for a roll in the hay.
I am currently in the same situation. Me and my nieghbor(which is married) have been part-timing for about 2 months now. It is purely sexual and me and his wife are pretty good friends. And she has no clue. But the sex is great and I look forward to the next time he comes over.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

Yes, girls have sexual needs too----which don't always include "relationship" issues--------guess on a personal basis, if thats all that is wanted by both folk,and no-one else is going to be affected---fine~~~~~~~~~~~~~but this is the real world and every action has a re-action--so bad idea!!

to answer clearly----if its right for u -------great
but,for me--------------unless I was sure noone was going to get hurt-------no way!!!!!~~~~~~~~~~~~~best to finish one relationship in an amicable manner than disrespect ur partner!

so quothe the "Angle"!

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

I'm far from being a prude or a preacher, but read my post in this thread, then decide if it's worth the risk!
http://www.pixies-place.com/forums/...&threadid=11889

Hope all goes well, whatever you decide!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

Be honest with her

and yourself and maybe your wife?

Wildeye

I want sex all the time. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't at least think about it in some way. However, I have never had a "one night stand" most of my friends have made it an every weekend ritual but I have no interest in being like that. Call me old fashioned but I couldn't pick up just anyone just to get off. I don't think I would respect myself in the morning...lol

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Missy

Well, here goes the hopeless romantic within me again....


Whatever happened to, "till death do us part!" There were sacred vows taken. I mean what's the point of getting married. I mean think of the sin being commited. It is not 'O.K'..I mean think about what u are doing, just for even a second. You looked into someone's eyes, you told them that till the day that day died (and there is even an implication for many years after that) that they would be the only one in your life. I mean if you can lie about that, than you can lie about anything. If you (or someone in that position) were a friend of mine and I knew they were cheating on their spouse, it would make me think, that to the most important person in their life (suposedly) they are able to lie to, cheat on, and not give a damn, then how can I take this person seriously with any ventures they have with me, business or otherwise....

Just some food for thought...

SteinFibers...

Yes, women sometimes just want sex. I tried that a few times, when I met someone and we had great sex and I never even THOUGHT about relationship issues or anything. It was just for the fun.

BUT: How come I always waited for him to call the next day? How come I usually fall in love with the guy I slept with, even if this was not intended.

All I want to say is: Be careful. Now she says it's just for the sex and tomorrow she asks you to leave your wife...

Yep! There are times that I just want a man for sex!

Like tonight would be good!!!!!

I really hate to say this but yes and RIGHT NOW !!!!!

Hubby have been unsuccessful in getting together lately. I'm in bed too early or he stays up too late. We just can't seem to connect.

And I'm horney as all hell. It's getting so bad that I'm beginning to daydream about big, juicy cocks filling up my starving pussy.
I'm trying to masturbate as much as I can, but with the kids around it ain't been easy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So,I have and do want a guy just for sex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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What is essential is invisible to the eye
Only with the heart can one see rightly.

<< here i am

Yes. And other women too.
Sex is part of life.

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

it would be fantastic to meet a lady that is honest about just wanting a sexual encounter

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you can alway's tell a limey,But Not Much


I'm so miserable with out you,

It's almost like having you here

Yes. For the first couple of years after my ex-husband and I separated, I wasn't ready for a LTR or even necessarily a monogamous relationship. I just wanted a "f**k buddy. I'd never knowingly date or have sex with a married man, however. I know all too well how it feels to be cheated on.

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Communication is the key.

Fuck her brains out!