rtctfield - I think you have to weigh up all that you'd have to lose from choosing to cheat. If you don't want to lose what you have, just think of that each time you look at the object of your temptation. And if you feel your existing relationship is over, then the respectful thing to do for the woman who's given you 14 years is to leave first, then consider entering into a new relationship.

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I appreciate that, Loulabelle. Problem is that I KNOW that I don't want a new relationship. That's not the issue. It's purely sexual. I know that sounds shallow, but the intense tempation is very real. We never, ever see each other out of work, and the workplace itself just lends itself to acting on the temptation. So, I think a new job will fix it. Like I said, never before in 14 years has there been temptation, opportunity, etc.

Loulabelle,

I was a serial lover until I hooked up with Dearsweet. After that I became a single lover.

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jseal

Sowing my wild oats made me a cereal lover.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Hmmmmm.....sounds like another one of your Trix.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I've sampled many different cereals in my time but I've always been faithful to whichever lady is in my life at the time. Can't say I've always been given that same courtesy though.

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No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

I've never cheated on Chrissy and don't ever plan to.

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Deep into that darkness peering,
long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
no mortal ever dreamed before.

I have cheated in past, but once I made my vows, I have tried very hard not to cheat

but I still have a weakness for, how do you say, "loose" women

I flirt a lot, but usually pull back when it starts going anywhere

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absolutely!

I've ticked "No, I haven't cheated on my current partner" but that's a bit out of date because we've just divorced (after 27 years). I did meet and have sex with a woman I contacted via the internet a few months ago, but that was after my wife had started divorce proceedings.

Meanwhile, onwards and upwards...

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Erotically yours... Gus

I'm beginning to think that maybe some folks arent wired for monogamy.

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It's a BOY!!

The definition of "cheating" is so personally interpreted. To some, I may have cheated...to Mr. Lixy, he trusts my heart!

Interpret that^^^^^^^

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

I can faithfully see I've never cheated, and never will cheat.

Though when I was younger and much hornier, I did sleep with a few married women.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

I'm not, and I know it.
I have tried it, and was desperately miserable. Worse, I didn't find out until the end I was the ONLY one being monogamous.

I am what I am. Slut, wildchild (not anywhere near being a child anymore, but the old name stuck), "roundheels", "Little Easy" (not a whore, don't do it for money), and other less pleasant names, but I am me.

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

That is basically all I've ever asked out of a relationship. I'd be open to an open relationship but it becomes not faithful when the things start happening behind my back. BTDT and it's not fun at all.

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus