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Old 07-09-2004, 02:07 AM
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strap on sex

Just wondered if anyone has done strapon sex?
As in a girl with a strapon, doing a guy in the ass.

I want to use a strapon on my guy but the first time we attempted I guess we didn't use enough lube or prepare enough so he asked me to stop when I slid in slowly bc it hurt.

Any tips or suggestions for next time?
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Old 07-09-2004, 03:09 AM
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Three words. Relax, lube, and slow. Lotsa lube and very slow.

Oh, and don't use the biggest dildo that will fit in the strapon.
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Old 07-09-2004, 03:48 AM
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Haven't done the strapon, but my wife has used a SMALL dildo. thereIam is right, relax, lube and slow. It is an interesting experience and, if not pain, at least some initial discomfort can be expected. Good luck.
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Old 07-09-2004, 03:59 AM
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well, the important things are said.
if u want it to become a great sexual adventure, there must be trust, and some lube between u. then take time and maybe help him relax by insterting a finger and a dildo or something first. do not hurry, at least not the first times...
have u tried analsex by yourself, i mean u in the passive role? if yes, try to do it to him, the way u like it been done to u. if not, try it, it's great!
hope that helps u.
oh and don't forget to tell us what happend
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Old 07-09-2004, 08:02 AM
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Go slow, start small(fingers), and lots of lube.
That's how Al and I do it if he's doing my ass or I'm doing his.
And sometimes even that won't work so you just try another time!
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Old 07-09-2004, 08:08 AM
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Old 07-09-2004, 08:22 AM
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Man I wish I could try that!!!
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Old 07-15-2004, 01:48 AM
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Man I wish I could try that!!!


I hear ya imaginewithme! I've been trying to persuade Fussy to let me 'do stuff' to his bum for as long as I've known him!! He's just not receptive to the pleasure of anal. Oh well....we have the rest of our lives for me to try to change his mind! LOL
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I hear ya imaginewithme! I've been trying to persuade Fussy to let me 'do stuff' to his bum for as long as I've known him!! He's just not receptive to the pleasure of anal. Oh well....we have the rest of our lives for me to try to change his mind! LOL

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Old 07-15-2004, 02:25 PM
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I hear ya imaginewithme! I've been trying to persuade Fussy to let me 'do stuff' to his bum for as long as I've known him!! He's just not receptive to the pleasure of anal. Oh well....we have the rest of our lives for me to try to change his mind! LOL



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Old 07-15-2004, 08:38 PM
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Fussy man, I'd be sleeping on my back if I were you!!...LOL
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Old 07-20-2004, 10:02 AM
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As someone who has had his fiancee use a strap on me, use lots of lube, go slow, and relax. Rave, it also might help to distract your man while doing the intial insertion. If you can, depending on your position, stroke your man to help relax and distract.
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Old 07-20-2004, 07:24 PM
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Let's see...anything having to do with anal, male or female...there is one set-in-stone rule:

Use more lube than you think you'll need - then put some more on!!

Oh yeah, and go slow!
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Old 07-20-2004, 08:12 PM
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He doesn't know what he is missing out on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feels sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Exclamation

I have "ulcerative colitus!"Periodically,I have to have a procedure,called a
colonoscopy & also another one.For the procedure,you use laxatives & they
intraveniously,give you a slight muscle relaxer(Librium,etc)They then insert a
tube,into you,thru the rectum,& check your colin(intestenal tube)tomake sure
that no Cancer has developed.Somehow,having something stuck in my ass,
holds no sexual fantasy,for me!if I didn't bleed to death,I would still think of
the procedure! Irish
P.S.With the developments,in medicine,you can now watch the whole thing,
thru the tube,on a small TV screen over your head.Believe me,sex is not on
your mind!
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