02-07-2004, 02:59 AM
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It wasn't me!!!
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Give him a call - the good things come to those who take them, so reach out and take the chance - you deserve it.
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If not an excuse for death,
and what is death,
if not an escape from life?
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02-07-2004, 06:10 AM
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Registered User
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Call him!!!!!!!!!! Call now, clean later. No more delaying tactics, no waiting for falling stars or for your hair to dry or for the sun to rise in the south. There are a million and one ways to put it off, and just one way to find out if he's sitting at home doing exactly the same thing you are.
He may not be ready for a romance, but by heaven he sounds like he's ready for a friend!! Give the guy a call.
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02-07-2004, 06:25 AM
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Rogue Trader ÿƒ
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Join Date: Apr 2002
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As a guy - call him. Nothing better than a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go and get it
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02-07-2004, 09:28 AM
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Everybody Stretch!
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Location: Pa. USA
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Have you called yet? Come on jenna.....just dial and don't practice anymore. Be yourself.....and whatever you say will be wonderful! I have this mental pic of you writing down topics to talk about....or rehearsing your "hello"..."hi"..."oh, hi there____"......and I think you have it down pat now....so just dial that phone hun! Once you get him on the line....it'll all flow naturally!
*takes the dust rag outta jenna's hand*
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02-07-2004, 03:28 PM
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Lusting Horny Pixie
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I called.. he wasn't home.. bummer for me... my wimpy side thinks it should be a sign and I should just forget about it... eventually or paths may cross again..
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02-07-2004, 04:42 PM
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♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
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Call back! Now even!!!!
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02-07-2004, 05:13 PM
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Registered User
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Location: California
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thank you starting this thread jenna! lemme tell you why.
about a year ago couple friends were at a bar for a guys bday. we were all having a good time, talking, drinking, getting rowdy. a girl i have never met before came and was a friends friend. so we were talking most of the night, her and i. so the night ended and we were outside and it was cold. i put a arm around her and she leaned into me. it was a nice feeling. and no, i didn't get her number that night, something which i've kicked myself over for a while.
so i met up with the guy who knew her last night. he gave me her number and told me to give her a call. i was thinking to myself.... its been almost a year and we only talked for one night. so i was really wondering if i should call or not. but reading this thread gave me motivation to do so. i just called her, had her laughing most of the time. she lives a couple hours up north of me which is nothing at all. she wants to hang out again which is definetly something to look forward to.
so... whats the moral of the story? CALL!!!
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02-07-2004, 05:47 PM
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Junior Member
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Location: UK
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The simple fact that you posted this question means that you want to call him!!
Go with your heart...CALL HIM... it'll make his day!! (And yours!!)
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02-07-2004, 10:58 PM
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Booger Lama
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Location: Michigan
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jenna call him again soon the longer you wait the more you'll sit around thinking about and convince yourself he going to say no so just call him and find out
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it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun
a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand
whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart
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02-08-2004, 01:08 AM
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HornDawg Cowboy
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I hope you not going to Quit on this! You need to Finish this Episode dammit.
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02-08-2004, 06:52 AM
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Wishful Thinker
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Have patience Hon, if you didn't get an answer it's not a sign of anything except his not being home. Either call again later or have faith he will call. If he has any sense he will. Good Luck Darlin'.... something tells me you won't need luck though.
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02-09-2004, 10:31 AM
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Bouncy Bunny
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So.....did you call yet?
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02-09-2004, 09:04 PM
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Lusting Horny Pixie
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Join Date: Jul 2002
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Yes, I did call that first time.. haven't called since. He wasn't home.. and I guess I took that as a sign...
the more I thought about it.... the more I felt that it would be unfair of me... to call him (or anyone else) and attempt any sort of relationship... I have alot of inner demons that I think I needto deal with... not to mention the outer issues I have as well...
until I do that.. deep inside of me.. I know that it would be unfair to consider involvement (at any level)... IF I were to truly care for someone... I wouldn't want to subject them to my issues...
call me a coward...
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02-10-2004, 06:45 PM
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Registered User
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Location: California
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no such things as signs jenna. (one of those advices thats easier said then done) their just little reassurances we give ourselves whether its for a good or bad thing. sometimes its to give ourselves hope, boost our confidence, let us feel that yes its our turn now. other times its to reassure ourself, make it so we don't have to go out of our comfort zone, keep ourself safe from hurt on taking a chance.
maybe you should call him again to see what happens. just to be friends, and have some change in your life. you may not be ready for a 'relationship', hell maybe neither is he! but just go have some drinks, some dinner, share some stories and laughs. add a new element in your life.
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02-10-2004, 07:23 PM
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I agree w/ Scorp...maybe just a movie buddy or a new influence. I wish you would just see.
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