thanks

Speaking from experience. I am a 47 years old woman. I began really enjoying sex in my mid thirties and it just keeps getting better. I find that older men concentrate more on pleasing the woman than pleasing themselves right away. Which makes sex much better for older women.

After just turning 42 i know for a fact that i've never enjoyed sex more or wanted it more than i do now!My body is much more aware ,i have the best orgasms...than i ever have and all i have to say is 4o's ROCK !!!!!!!!!!

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I've lost interest in men all they see is a sexual object, men are never friends less they have a vested sexual interest.

little sprite it may be your attitude of mind - just change your attitude and you will love men and men will love and care for u
take care.

Nope Not I...bring on the sex!!!!!!!!!!!

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thanks every one for your opinion

My wife is 32, and she seems to have lost all intrest in sex, but that is not all bad, this does give me the time to become closer with my right hand.

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I know a reason i lost interest in sex with my ex is because he was a lowdown cheatin m.f.....we had tons of sex mornin,noon,and nite and it was great,then when i admiited to myself that the loser was cheating he made my skin crawl...i kicked his losing ass out.Now he's kickin himself in the ass lol 7 yrs later funny cuz he stopped here earlier asking if i needed anything.So there are many reasons why a women would lose interest thats just one of mine.

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I wouldn't say I'd lost interest, I find that this is time in my life
when I'm freer to be sexier.

I will say that I'd rather take care of it myself sometimes,
because it seem to more about what he wants lately.

When we do connect the sex is AWESOME, but there are times
when "a girl's gotta' do what a girl's gotta' do !!!!!!

And I do love my sex toys !!!!!!!

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thanks

hey sumtimes it comes down to the partners- regardless of how old people are! it can be how our partners feel or treat us that can make us want sex - but guess thats a whole nother thread lol

I second that emotion ......49 and still cookin'

I am 42 and it seemed that sex was at the all time high for me. But lately, and I dont think it has anything to do with age, I have lost intreast but due to I'm not happy with my situation. But I had become to love sex anyway and I think anyone (well???)

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I agree w/SugarSprinkles that women's desire can be greatly influenced by their hormones. Menopause can wreak havoc on our bodies, as can bearing children. I think the amount of stress and the nature of the relationship between 2 people can be even bigger factors. If a woman is trying to handle a full-time job, raising kids, maintaining a household, and seeing to her man's nonsexual needs, she may have next to no energy left for sexual ones of his or her own.

For me personally, my sex drive is as strong or stronger than it ever was. Orgasms take longer to achieve, which can be very frustrating at times, but they are better and more varied than ever before. And I still find, as I always have, that my sex drive is usually higher than my partner's, when I'm lucky enough to have a partner, that is. I'm 55--closer to 56, in fact.

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