I've made some bitching posts lately that have people frightened, or assuming I'm expecting. The truth is I have a large tumor. It is not expected to be cancerous but must be removed. I have not scheduled the surgery yet but will do so early June. I'm having a hard time grasping that I am losing an organ or 2 or 3 and am being a big wussy baby.

As I told a sweet person in PM, my plan from here is to just put on my big girl panties and get over it. I just didn't want anything I have posted to be misconstrued or to scare people. I'm fine, just pissed.

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You'd better be OK for when we get to Fla, or Mrs Oldfart'll say some rude things.

In other words, do whatever you need to do to be well.

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((((((((Lil))))))))))

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OF~ I'm sure going to try. I can't promise how well my boys will have kept house but just know that your visit will be the highlight of my summer

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

No, visiting you'll be the highlight of mine, with Oshkosh and Niagara in a close race for second.

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I saw a post a little while back from you that said that you had a tumor, but I thought you were joking and saying you had a headache a' la Arnold Schwarzenegger in "Kindergarten Cop".

Oh, Lil! Much love and support to you and your family!

Thanks Liz. I posted that cause Aqua and I used to do that bit and for the first time I knew it was true

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

I have no idea what to say and I can't even imagine the hell you are going through (the mind never stops thinking and worrying I'm sure). Please know that we are all here for you and if it were possble, I'd pack up and come take care of you and the kids while you recuperate. "hugs"

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((((Lil)))) If I lived closer... I'd keep house... or at least help teach your boys

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You seem extremely stoic & determined but you know Pixies welcome rants during difficult times. (((((Lil)))))))

((((Hugs)))) i know everythng will be fine and im here if u need to rant or rave or anything else

~nikki

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osuche and fzzy~ this is really fucking with my self discipline with the eating thing. After it's all over it's gonna be so easy to sit on my ass and eat bon bons for 3-4 weeks. Help me NOT do that please

liz~ if you shake the bed I'll murderize you

scotz~ don't be speechless. I'm fine just annoyed.

OF~ it better still be a stunning cunt they are supposed to leave that part in tact.

Steph~ lol I felt like I've been whiny and pissy. I scared some people and felt like I better clear the air. Thanks for being there.

nikki~ you are 100% correct. It will all be fine. Thanks!

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

(((((Lilith)))))

Taking care of yourself is first and foremost! Keep positive thoughts! Know that you are loved and that our concern is a powerful vibe!

I know you are worried that we are worried. Helping yourself is the best thing you can do for us...AND YOU!

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