
06-05-2007, 07:10 PM
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Anniversary
I'm at a loss. In a couple of weeks Mr. Lil and I will be celebratinhg our 20th anniversary. I am completely unprepared as usual. I don't know what sort of gift sums up 20 years of thank yous, fuck yous, and love yous. The man wants for nothing so there is nothing he *needs* me to give him and frankly I'm looking for something more symbolic.
Any suggestions?
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06-05-2007, 08:33 PM
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I have often wished they had jewelry for men like they do for women representing the 'past, present, future' type thing.
Perhaps something that would be for the both of you? A special weekend trip that would include representations of your life together? Starting with the dating, serious lust, living together, marriage, first house, and ending with time including the kids? Kinda like "This is Our Life"? May take more planning than what time you have, but may give you both something to reminisce about.
Plant a tree and place a 2 seat bench nearby so when you 2 need to just get away to sit, talk, whatever you have a place?
Or, get together and plant a time capsule to dig up when you have your 40th? 
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06-05-2007, 08:38 PM
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Great ideas Chey. I like the tree idea.
We are going on a trip. I just want to do something else too just for him.
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06-05-2007, 09:38 PM
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Turn it up!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilith
I just want to do something else too just for him.
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Lacks in symbolism, but a big ole sloppy BJ would surely not be unappreciated...
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06-05-2007, 11:13 PM
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Leo was right
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Well Lil, I don't know him so sorry if what I'll ask are things that most Pixies would aleady know.
Is he a sports fan? What's his major interest in life, other than you and the kids? Believe me, I'll come up with something. What's his passion?
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06-05-2007, 11:29 PM
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Leo was right
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Lil, if he's into music I'm thinking you get a whole bunch of CD's from the time when you first started dating.
Maybe try to recreate your first date.
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No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac
Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."
An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"
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