congrats to you both .... always good to know that love is in the air!

In answer to lilith

It happenned with a rush. I was very flattered when curvy PM'ed me and we started to email. I was very wary having being badly burnt before so I used the open honest approach and told her what had happened previously and the concerns I had about even entering a relationship that would end up in a dead end and causing pain.

the answers were all positive, the biggest one that if it all came together she not only would move to tasmania but would love to.

There was already some vibes between us and we started asking questions of the other and learnt about each others pasts and situation. We have such compatible thoughts, feelings and ideals. We have spent a lot of time on the phone and the conversations are so natural like we have known each other all our lives. If you asked me a month ago whether you could meet someone and just gel instantly I would have laughed.

But it has happened to me ..... no it has happenned to us ....... I always said that I admired pixies ladies, it is because they are open, sexual, caring and sharing. My love fits that mould plus she has a thing for one particular Grumble.

We want to stay pixies and what great role models we have with Sharni and Bilbo, Celtic Angel and DM. They share themselves and their love for each other all through Pixies and it is such a joy to me to see it.

I didn't shy away even though the hurt is very much lurking close in the background. Every day brings messages of love and actions that show love and purpose to persue the goal of being together. Only today i got a message saying that my love was contacting a study overseas program so she could finish her degree (she is a mature age student) at the University of Tasmania and it is a possibilty she could be here for the second semester of our academic year which starts in late July I think.

Perhaps fairytales do come true, I am a very romantic man and think that this is a match that should be persued with vigour because I feel the person is absolutely suited to me, we both find the other attractive on all levels, we both have the desire to make the other happy and agree that openess, honesty and communication will be our creed. We have both had failed marriages and have leant from it.

Aside from the romantic feelings which are very prevalent for us both, the practical points have been deeply considered also.

I have written this because I do not want people to be concerned that I am giving way to romantic and lustful feelings like a teenager. There are all the basics for a lifelong happy union that have been discussed and considered and life is too short to procastinate if you have found what you want and not go for it.

I must say that my phone bill will be a tad larger this month LOL

I am incredibly honoured and happy to have been blessed with my beautiful future S/O.

I'm so happy for you both! :heart:

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Communication is the key.

I too am happy for you both. I know you don't know me, but I understand your situation and I applaud you. I met the love of my life online, and from the time we met face to face (almost 2 1/2 years ago), we've been devoted to each other. I can't imagine life without him, nor can I imagine loving anyone except him. I am proof that real and wonderful relationships can begin online

Best of luck to you two on your journey together!

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

(((Grumble))) & (((curvyredhead)))


I am SO happy for you guys!! I pray you will have an amazing life together, just as we do!!

(Not so sure about moving to Tas, though; it's a bit "backward" over there, innit? )

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

If you have kids will they be curvy redheaded grumbles?

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Half of a set :halo:

LOL catch 22

naturally we have discussed children. we have 4 between us so no we do not plan to have any more. It is a moot point any way as I had the big V about 11 years ago.

Every day we find out more and more about each other and every discovery is a delight. We are just so compatible and so open and honest, we have aired all the skeletons LOL and really there is nothing that causes concerns.

We had the most amazing discussion about our sexual desires and what we wanted to explore. She is so open and sexual, I gave her a great compliment, called her a Pixie through and through. I know that for the first time in my life I will be with a person who matchs my passion physically and emotionally.

Curvy has much more to her than a sexy body, she is a intelligent and motivated woman and a very good mother.

One of the things we discussed was posting in couples. We are both turned on by the idea. We have no problems sharing our love visually with you sexy folk. In fact we want to share our passion for each other with you

If you ever need someone to take pictures.

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Half of a set :halo:

Could someone help me find the floor, cause I've been walking about 5 feet off it for days!!!

I didn't think that men like Grumble really existed (sorta like unicorns and honest politions). To find a man that cares about me and my needs after two marriages where I did all the giving and support is ...wow. A partnership where both people work to bring happiness to each other.

I know that we've only known each other a short time, but we both feel like we have found the person we have always wanted.

I'm very glad we can share this with everyone here at Pixies, hope we don't make you too sick! LOL

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The subconscious is a state in which reality is just a visitor!

A smile can make your whole day.

"I don't mind the sun sometimes, the images it shows, I can taste you on my lips and smell you in my cloths..." ~Pepper.

And you promised you wouldn't... You know what a bitch it is to clean these keyboards?

I'm mailing it to you to clean.




*hugs*
teddy