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Hard question.

i suppose it's when sex goes beyond the physical and is at one with a deeper sense of self and love and respect for another and respect/acceptance of yourself.

but i'm not putting the details here - it would be an essay and particuarly boring!!!

i stick to the sex bit.


1) First Bj when i was taken by surprise.

2) First time fucking her in stockings and crotchless panties

3) giving her 15 or so orgasms over 6 hours

4) First time with another man.

Wildeye

I lost my virginity when I was 18 and it was such a horrible experience never had sex again till I was 20 with a wonderful 40 yr old married man with lots of patience. We were lovers for about two months and he taught me so much about pleasure with sex, I am forever gratefull. He also introduced me to a lesbian who seduced me and taught me the pleasures of being bi, (which I always was, I am sure). That two months with my older lover was my defining moment, and my sexual salvation

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Susan

I agree with that.

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Defining sexual moment? I've had a few, and it depends on how good he is. (jk)

I can think of two:
1. First time I had consentual sex after I had been molested. I realized that I could have sex on MY terms, and I liked it considerably better.

2. Moment that I realized that I didn't believe in monogamy and trying to fit myself into the traditional sexual models didn't work (for me).

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

My defining sexual moment was when I realized that the hand held shower head could be used more ways than one. mmmmm
I so miss that shower head but I must say I look at lots of things around the house differently since my first time in the shower . hehe

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