Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[X ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ X] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[X ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[X ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[X ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[X ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[X ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[X ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[X ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[X ] Uniforms
[X ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[X ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[X ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[X ] The bath room
[X ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[X ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[X ] Reasonable rules
[X ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[X ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[X ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[X ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[X ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[X ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[X ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[X ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[X ] Needles and pins
[X ] Cross, rack
[X ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[X ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[X ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[X ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[X ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[X ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[X ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[X ] Something I want as much as possible
[X ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ X] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
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Lisa

Now I just want to say some of these are my personal kinks and some of these I would love to do with a SO. Enjoy.

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[x] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[x] Nurses, doctors
[x] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[x] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[x] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[x] I am are sold on a slave market
[x] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[x] I am a little schoolgirl
[x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x] I am are tied and teased
[x] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[x] I am verbally humiliated
[x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x] Sexy lingerie
[x] Uniforms
[x] Denim
[x] High Heels
[x] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[x] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x] Your bedroom
[x] A dungeon, castle
[x] Churches and abbeys
[x] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[x] Abandoned construction sites
[x] Back alleys
[x] The red light district
[x] A school or a classroom
[x] BDSM-clubs
[x] Estates
[x] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[x] Medieval scenery
[x] Nudist beaches
[x] Parking spaces
[x] Truck stops
[x] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x] Dialogue in normal language
[x] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x] Obey rules or else
[x] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x] Obvious and explicit role play
[x] Subtle role play
[x] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[x] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[x] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[x] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[x] Blindfold
[x] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x] Whips
[x] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[x] Cage
[x] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x] Being tied up and tickled
[x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[x] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x] Used as a servant
[x] Being tied and tortured
[x] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being used by more than one dominant
[x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[x] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]

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Writing as ShafterParker.

We have this here in TX...and we also have cowboys...

http://www.medievaltimes.com/theshow.htm

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

I hate to admit it but I missed the boat. How do you fill out the check list, all I could think of was to paste it here and fill it out, but doesnt look like thats how it supposed to be done.

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jaycee

copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Or you could just scream "yes" or "no" when Lilith starts doing something.






Not that she'll listen.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Some of the things I've ticked in the "attributes" section are things I would certainly love to try, rather than things I know I love.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
X Others, please specify: Superheroes

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[X ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[X ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X ] Interrogation room
[X ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want sex during a scene - But don't always get
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[X ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[X ] Gags
[X ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[XXX ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[X ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify: Something I hope to explore more of... Being a switch makes it interesting too.

Just so you don't forget... Aquaman is a Superhero.

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ xx] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ x] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ x] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ x] Your bedroom
[ x] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ x] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[x ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ xx] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ x] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ xx] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ xx] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ x] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ xx] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ x] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ x] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
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First ever post, be gentle...

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: Therapists/Shrinks

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X] I am used as a slave in private
[X] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X] Leather
[X] Rubber, latex
[X] Patent leather, PVC
[X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X] High Heels
[X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X] Your bedroom
[X] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X] Interrogation room
[X] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: Trains/Planes

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X] Obey rules or else (only if rules have been clearly established)
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X] Strict training
[X] Obvious and explicit role play
[X] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[X] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X] Ropes
[X] Leather cuffs and belts
[X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X] Blindfold
[X] Gags
[X] Masks
[X] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X] Silk to be tied with
[X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[X] Cross, rack
[X] Bondage table
[X] Cage
[ ] Sling
[X] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X] Being locked up and left alone
[X] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

After reading that^^^ I'm not sure you really like gentle

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hehe ^^^

Whilst I crossed many items, all of them aren't things I've necessarily experienced 'yet'...

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