So he buys you dinner?

You realize he's talking about your sex life to an ex?

I'm sorry, I've been in retarded relationships but if dude ever talked about our sex life to an ex, that would be the end.

I can be white trash but there are limits.

WildIrish touched on something important I feel:

If he is the kind of man who leads his ex on to 'see what he can get out of it' he sounds like a really nasty piece of work to me.

For a start, what was he hoping to get out of it? Sex? Money? Eeeeek!

Listen to those alarm bells honey and run for the hills!

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YEAH I KNOW I HAVE TRIED TALKING TO HIM ABOUT IT AND HE SAY'S IT WAS JUST FOR A JOKE!! :-( WHICH I DON'T BELEIVE IT JUST SEEMS LIKE HE IS FULL OF EXCUSES

Well looloo, I think you know what the right answers are for you, but as far as advice goes then you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel, If you do not like the things he is saying to them then you need to tell him and express your concerns. If this does not work then you need to think about getting rid of him as you two are not right for each other, he may not respect you the way you should be respected.

Luv2BeLicked is entirely right looloo.....you've confronted him, his explanations have been found wanting, so don't stick around for further heart ache.

I know it's hard to face being alone, but if you stay in a toxic relationship you're
a) sending out the message that his poor treatment of you is ok
b) not allowing yourself a chance at a more fulfilling life
c) eroding your own self esteem and dignity by staying with a man who you know to be lying to you

You are an honest, articulate, intelligent, kind woman. You deserve at least as much in from your partner in return.

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IT JUST SEEM LIKE THAT WHEN I DO TALK TO HIM HE IS FULL OF EXCUSES AND WHEN HE SEE'S HOW MUCH IT PISSES ME OFF HE LAUGHS ABOUT IT

To be blunt, why do you stay with him then?

looloo, you asked for advice, you've received it. Please stop defending him or making up excuses for him. Take a long look at what you really want and follow your head and your heart ... hopefully when you are truly honest with yourself the two will be in sync and lead you to where you need to be with this relationship.

He sounds like a very unkind man. I don't say this lightly, as I don't believe in giving up at the first hurdle in the relationship, but it sounds to me, like he's had all the chances he deserves. My advice is:

don't talk, just walk.

He's undermining you and your relationship and while ever you continue in this relationship, you are denying yourself the right to a happy, healthy one.

What makes you think you don't deserve better?

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All I have to say is this....

Get rid of the smuck and when you look back onto your relationship with him use it as a guide as to what NOT to put up with in a relationship.

Do you think this is the type of person you deserve for yourself?

BTW....it is doubtful that any person male or female, who laughs at another person's upset will change their ways.

Put a period on it and move on......

All kinds of very nasty warning signs there. I would say drive on to something new. Doesn't sound like a good vibe at all.